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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Everybody says we would look cute together...I don't know what to do because if I wait too long won't he be taken??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Hello. I am 13. I'm not really interrested in any one right now. I hang out with people who are mainly 15 and 16 (people my age are retarded lol). Well I met this guy; and he is 16. He doesn't seem interested in me nor I in him, but he is very s...

I am upset with her because she slept with two guys during our 'break'. But I also slept with someone else! Advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My girfiend of 4yrs and I broke up for a couple of months recently, but we remained in contact throughout and even slept together a few times. We got back together which I was happy about until she admitted sleeping with 2 different guys during ...

Broke up with fiancee and started dating a guy from work. Now this new guy thinks we are getting too serious,too fast! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - hi,I'll keep it as short as i can..I recently broke up with my fiance of 3 yrs. I had decided what I was living wasn't how I wanted to live for the rest of my life..soon after I began to have feelings of this, I began speaking on e-mail to a guy at ...

She claims she's never met these other guys online..so do I give her a 2nd chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Ive been seeing my girlfriend for a while now. She is away at college and recently when visiting her I discovered messages on her computer between her and a few other guys. She suggested to most of them suggested phone sex and meeting up behind my ...

I am madly in love (I even gave up porn!) but she doesn't know me... help me out... am I love sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - hi, im 16 and what i feel is that i am madly in love with that girl. From past three-four days i have been thinking of her all the time. I do everything with her in my mind. ive given up masturbation and pornography. But on the other side it has ...

New gf makes me feel 'weird'-I just want to hug and kiss her! What's wrong with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Ive recently got a new girlfriend as after seeing her, i asked to become a couple. She said yes which was good but im very confused. She really likes me and i like her but when im not with her i feel weird and i dont know why, but when im with her i ...

I am not getting enough Sex from my girlfriend! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I Only have sex with my girlfriend once or twice a month and i want more but she doesn't.. when We first started goin out we had sex 2 or 3 times a week.. now since we have bin together 2 years its only a few times a month. Shes always to sleepy or ...

They flirt and then when I flirt back, the interest stops! What's with this cat and mouse game guys play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - ok here it goes i guess its alot like the others posted on here but i feel when it comes to me and men theirs a bermuda triangle i can be flirtacious fun and caring and i get flirted back but when i take more of an interest its like all of a sudden ...

My bf and his close galpal are touchy-feely and they have this 'term of endearment' they use-do they have deeper feelings with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a close girl friend..before i came in,they are best of friends. at first its ok,but suddenly I notice that their closeness came out of boundaries, they became so touchy with each other, to the extent that they both have this term of ...

I love my bf but fantasize about this other guy? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend (let's say Ashley) for over two years, and until recently I was very happy about it. We have seen each other 6 days a week since we got together, and on the seventh we spend hours on the phone. I realise how ...

Her parents are going away and I need some good seduction tips to use on my gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hi im 19 an have been with my gf for 2 years, we currently live with her parents but once i have finished my apprenticeship and she has finished uni then we will start looking for a place of our own. Well we do have sex regularly but don't actually ...

She's put up a wall with me and I can't talk to her! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - what should I do to get back with a girl if she will let me get pass the wall she has put up against me. how can I get her to communicate her feelings and thoughts with me. she cheated and I want her back...

He could do very little to commemorate my b-day due to miscalculations, now he feels guilty. Opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Yesterday was my 50th birthday and my boyfriend (whom I've been living with for 8 months) did very little to commemorate it. I will tell you a story as briefly as I can. He told me one night last week that we would go out Saturday night for dinn...

We stare at each other a lot, so how do I get confident and talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and recently I've had a fair few guys who I find attractive show an interest in me, but I never know any of them well enough. I'll meet them at college and we'll talk for a bit, then we just sort of... go our separate ways. It never ...

I need help because his mind games are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Okay I posted a question a couple of months ago and im really confused. This lad called "Liam" is giving me mixed signals. I dont know him but occasionally chat to him on msn and he stands outside my school. He stares at me most of the time but ...

I can't get that physical attraction back for him...will these feelings ever return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - How can I get my love life back on track and how will I know that I really want to? This seems a daft question but my partner and I split up in February and after much discussion, decided to give our relationship another chance. Since then tho...

I feel like she's lost interest. How do I make myself special in her eyes again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - This is a follow-up to this question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-im-never-going-to-get-over.html) My biggest problem I have now is that this girl that I'm in love with is now my friend, but it seems like everything has changed. Whe...

She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that ...

I'm attractive, athletic and confident but I've never had a gf! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Here's the situation - I'm 20, fairly athletic, my friends who are girls say I'm attractive, I'm fairly confident, and have a good sense of humour, and I can keep a converstaion going by asking questions and getting involved. Yet I have never had a ...

He can't perform and says it isn't me but it hasn't happened before...what's wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together a little over a month. A couple of weeks ago we tried having sex for the first time, we didnt succeed. He got hard but it went limp again. The next day we tried again, and the same thing happend. Finally ...

I feel like he doesn't give of himself....how can I tell if he cares??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for four months now. I do not know if whether or not he likes or care for me the way I do. I want to be in a relationship with this guy, but I feel that he is not giving any of himself to me...

She wants a break but I cant help thinking she wants to be with the guy from work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Hi My girlfriend and i have been going out for 7 months before i met her she had another boyfriend who treated her badly so when she argued with him she would go and get really drunk and cheat on him she would also self harm. So when she ended i...

We both have properties, if I move with her I'd have to sell what I own, is it not too big of a risk? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Been in a relationship for a year, and now, I need to decide whether I want to take it further by moving in with my partner. She's not interested in getting married, owns her own house. I also own a house, but if I move in, I will have to sell what ...

My girlfriend strips and I'm ok with it but the 'private room' bothers me...any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend strips. She is doing it to make her way through school. She is pre med , full time credits, and doesnt have much time to do things outside of school. The club gives her an oppurtunity to make decent money choosing her own hours. i...

It's just got too boring and I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Anybody been in a similar situation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years now but i think we have just grown apart i am beginning to question if i want to be with him any more. I like to go out to clubs etc and have fun but all he wants to do is stay at home and do nothi...

Me and my bf live together and are suffering a relationship crisis (not talking). We've always had a volatile connection, lately worsening.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am in an awful state at the moment. i am living with my boyfirend for the last few months and in the last few weeks we keep fighting with each other, and now at the moment we're not talking to each other. I don't know how to sort these ...

Sometimes it seems she doesn't want to talk to me at all....does she like me though??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - Does she like me or not??? I met this girl who works for the same company as me on a social networking site after she seeked me out. We met properly on separate nights out with friends and we got on really well and I asked if if sher fancied ...

The boy who likes me has hurt my two friends he's been in relationships with. I am scared the history will repeat itself, so should I accept him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - my best friend recently told me he likes me and ive liked him for ages and never even thought i stood a chance with him. most of my frieds are telling me i should go for it, but hes been out with two of my closest friends and he really hurt them. ...

My bf is still communicating with his ex, and is upset about my spying. I've also heard he's been married once, which he denies. Do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - My fiance has been hiding his cell phone from me but picks mine and reads my messages frequently. I recently read messages from his cell phone and realised that he was stil communicating with his ex girlfriend who is already married. This really ...

He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me fo...

Different libidos, normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I'm a 20-year-old female with a 29-year-old male. I've always been in long term relationships with very frequent sex that I was normally initiating so i suppose I'm not even sure if this is abnormal. As a little background, we work about 35 a ...

He said he would wait for me but the way he is acting I am not sure he will.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Just to recap: I was in a 3year relationship with a man I loved dearly and with all my heart. However, we fought a lot and he never understood the things I needed and I was always wrong which frustrated me a lot and was always unhappy. He is a gre...

I want to see my one-night stand again...how do I go about it??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I slept with this guy this weekend. We were talking at a party and I was definately the aggressor, but he was into it too. Anyway we ended up back at my place and had sex and a while later niether one of us was asleep so we made some sandwiches ...

How can I stop my girlfriend taking this job at a strip bar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend took off her top at a strip bar on a dare. The manager there asked her if she’d like to work there. She said she’s thinking about it!! He told her she could make five hundred a night. She works as a waitress now, but thinks she can ...

Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

4 December 2007 (M) - I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to ...

Are we normal???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I always thought my boyfriend was attractive, but I never thought he would like me as he's 3 years older than me and was going to go away to university in Scotland in September (where he is now), however, to cut a long story short, he finally asked ...

I've been having THE worst love life these past few months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I've been having THE worst love life these past few months. I'll explain it a bit first. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago, and a week later, I started going out with this other guy who I fancied when I was still going out ...