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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have severe trust issues...What do I make of the text he sent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hey,this is prob a real stupid question and i feel stupid for even askin it. Today i got a text from my boyfriend out of the blue saying "hmmm what to get what to get.." I didn't know what he meant from this as thats all he said not even hi how are ...

I really like her but she is younger and taken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Dear users I am really looking for some mature advice from anyone who can help me. My name is Nick and I have just turned 21, things at work are ok, and I have been talking and getting to know a person who I really do admire at work. The pr...

Is this a rebound relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - A guy is dumped by his wife who tells him she has never really loved him, and whilst he is stinging over that, his temporary assistant is there (unhappy in her marriage), mopping up his tears. She has to return home 1000 miles away so he tries to ...

Does he still like me or is he upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - hiya! another boy trouble question i'm afraid! well im very worried. this guy and i have been going out for about 2 or 3 months and i c him most days at school etc. ive been out with him 2 or 3 times. and everytime hes asked me out ive sed yes ...

His porn addiction means I find it hard to trust him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - The porn question and advice: Well, I was married for 14 years, finally could not take his addiction..he would take pics and videos of other women and god knows what else..confronted him for 8 years..than he wanted me to sleep with other men..man...

Ideas for a special present for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - wel basically im with my boyfriend a year dis cuming sunday.. i wanted make sum tin special . i alread made a scrap book wi lil tngs in it eg pictures letters etc. i already got a picture frame with two of us, im jus wondering if der is anyt...

He's cheated and got another girl pregnant but I still love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - i was with a guy for 7months and i was very happy he told me that he had a friend /girl m8t that he had prevousely been haveing sex with her but said 2 one an other that if they find someone else it would stop.anyway so i accepted his honesty and he ...

I'm head over heels for him and need advice how to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (?) - I dont really know what to say but i really really need some answers please. Im 17, about 3 months ago I started talking to a guy who lives quite far away from me, we're of a similar age and we talk and talk on messenger, and talk on the phone and...

My girlfriend's had over 100 lovers and I'm finding it hard to deal with

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - I am having problems dealing with my girlfriends past. I have read other questions on this site where men say their girlfriends have had lots of partners but mine has had 136 and she is only 24, this is really eating away at me and I dont know what ...

Christmas present dilemma...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 92 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/christmas-present-dilemma-bought-her-a-present-last.html Hiya people, go on the above link. (It's just a recap of my last post) Anyway the thing is... I've taken aboard everything that has been said, and i feel qui...

My boyfriend's been moody and off with me, he says he's ok, do I push it or leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend get along great. were COMPLEATLY oposite. COMPLEATLY. dont take that lgihtly. but somhow it still works. now. last night, he was in a bad mood. and i was talking to him. i was like, "i wish there was somthing i could do to he...

Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I hava a boyfriend who has a short temper who I luv very much little confused, an incident occured yesterday where he got so pissed off because he wanted my son who is 13 to help him with some bags. I told him that I would take care of it and then ...

What can I do and say to him that could draw me closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I have a guy who i like and we're kind of friends right now. I can tell he likes something about me that could draw him new but then my negative actions(eg saying i'm a man hater etc) hinders him from going the full mile and liking me back. Tell me ...

Is there any way I can show a girl that I am interested without actually saying it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - hi. im a single guy, athlete, and i have a lot of friends(girls) but ive never hooked up with them. I kno the attraction is there but ive never made a move. Is there any way i can show a girl that im intrested without saying it. any advice would be ...

What do you all think about getting back with an ex? Are we handling this in the right way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - well, me and this boy use to go out with each other, but at the time we rushed into things and it just wasnt working out. we didnt talk for a while then one day we met each other in a club aboot 6 months later.. we were chatting and there was spark, ...

He is my first date with an uncircumcised penis and that... turns me off. I want to break up, should I tell him why?

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 months now. I think he's great and want to have a long-term relationship with him. The problem is, I don't sleep with my boyfriends until we've dated a little while aad I'm sure I really like them for ...

She only likes me as a friend. How can I get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - I really like this girl but she says that she only likes me as a friend and she and has a boyfriend and i can't really stop thinking about her, can you give me some advice,thanks....

I've just moved in with my boyfriend. What should I write in his christmas card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hi I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been hard going but its pretty good now. I have got him a card for xmas and i was wondering if someone could give me some suggestions what to write in. I want to make it nice.. n...

My friend nearly made out with me until I asked him to stop. What was he thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hi I moved to a new city one year ago and my former flatmate from my old one visited me last weekend. While the weekend was fun, it got kinda weird on Saturday night. We were watching TV and my friend sort of started touching me. We nearly made out...

He gave me a 2nd chance and I've blown it! I love him so much and would be destroyed if he left. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - i kissed a boy 8 months into my 3 year relationship with my bf and i told him the next day and he was very upset and i begged him to take me back so he did and i swore i would never hurt him again like that and i had sex with the same boy about a ...

Help! My ex is dating again, and I still love her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Help! My ex is going out with another guy only a few months after she broke up with me! We were together a year and a half, and I can't believe she's already moved on! The break up hit me really hard initially, and now this has made things even...

My boyfriend of 2 years went on a christmas party with work... Now I'm a little concerned about text messages he has recieved. Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hi aunts, just want to say thanx for your advice in the past and just some more advice and info on another question.... My boyf of 2 years went to his Christmas party with his boss and few other guys last week. It was one of them huge party nites...

My best friend wants to marry her man... after 1 month. Do you think it'll work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hi my best friend has met a man only a month ago and he wants to marry her. He is 42 and she is 28. He is a military officer (Colonel) high rank in the army and she just graduated as a medical practitioner. Her parents are encouraging her and her ...

She doesn't contact me, but she contacts my ex! What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - iam a guy who is 22 yrs in love with a girl aged 19.The problem is i recently found out that she does not at any time call me but instead she calls her ex-boyfriend as i found a text message she wrote to her exboyfriend using my phone and this has ...

Why does my mum and sister seem HAPPY about my downfall??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Why does my mum and sister feel happy with my downfall. Ive always been a naive character but recently broke up from my husband and father of my children. When we were happy together my family always seemed jealous, never came to visit me or share ...

He says I need "someone on my own level". What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says you need someone on your own level and that should be just mates? please help i really like this guy but thats what he said to me,when i asked him out?...

13. I've been with my girlfriend for a month. I want to kiss her, but I'm too shy! Can you help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 13 year old male and I have been going out with a girl I really like for just over a month now. We have so much in common and I think it'll work really well. Theres just one problem. I am shy to kiss her. I have hugged her!...

28, and still gets nervous when it comes to meeting women! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Dear, I am 28 years old and still i get nervous if i meet woman and if anybody insults me. This causes lots of trouble to me. I raised in a familly where my parents did not have very good relation. I lived in the middle of anarchy. Then one of ...

Lately, we've not been having much sex. What's up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Hello, I've got this problem. Lately me and my girlfriend are not having much sex. There's always a cause for this. Either she is not in the mood, or no time, or because my or her parents are at home. This became a big problem for me with the pare...

Confused, hurt and upset. Please help me figure this guy out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - It's a long story but he has sent me mixed messages for a long time. I figure he is not into me because of his inability to be direct and he now has a gf. six months ago when my bf and me took a break and I told him I think I liked him HE DID ...

No word from him in a week! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - okay, i got out there and dumped the 26 year old and met someone who i thought liked me. he came for a weekend and we got on like a house on fire, or so i thought.he said that we sould see each other soon, but i havent heard from him in a week and ...

He is scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I am currently seeing a man that I have a wonderful connection with. He is from South India, and I am a white American woman. One of the main reasons that I love him so much is for his willingness to be open and communicate. We have been seeing each ...

I'm 17, and totally depressed. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Alright I dont really know what to do anymore. Im only 17 and I am totally depressed about a ton of thing to its not just one thing. There is school, ive got like 9 credits as a junior pretty much im goin to fail in life. I cant look for god cause I ...

She seemed like a wonderful woman... But it seems like she'd have sex with anything with a pulse! I don't know what to think. Please advise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - I'm troubled that I'm currently a father, 35, of a special needs son. I have custody of the little guy. In May, I met a seemingly wonderful woman, who was about to turn 34 years old. She has no children. She's wonderful with my son. After about ...

It bothers me that he is talking to his ex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - My bf broke up with his ex about 2 years ago, but they still talk almost everyday (I check his phone, so is a fact). She dumped him after he cheated with others girls and finally with me. Well, we started to date while they were having problems in ...

He doesn't know what he wants! What am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hey im 22 and the guy im seeing is 32 him and me use to work 2 gather at the same company and i recently quit there back in may well we kept in contact by texting he hates talkin on the phone anyways with him being a manager and havin a second job ...

Married and tempted by a co-worker. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I am in need of some advice...actually am relieved to have come across this site to find people are in similar situations...makes me feel so much better to know that I am not alone in this. I am happily married to the love of my life but more ...

Dating someone from another country, what things do you usually say to let the other person know you are interested?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - I'm from Argentina, and i met this american guy on work. We speak different languages so we have different ways to express our selfs.. I realy like him, we go out couple of times, enjoy each other company and had a realy great time, but nothing ...

Any advice on topics for conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - K so I'm looking for a bit of advice here, I like a girl who I know likes me back, but we can never keep a good conversation going. We hooked up once at a party (we were both drinking, so we don't really know each other) but ever since we've been...