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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

GF suffers from mild depression and it is now affecting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend suffers from mild depression. She can hold down a good job, but she has trouble sleeping, cries a lot and rarely wants to see anybody. I have done my best to cope with her depression for the last 6 months and I have now reached ...

We've been going out 4 months but nothing's happened, do you think we might breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - Ok i am currently going out with my girlfriend now for 4 months.. we havent done any thing except meet.. Im worried if we dont go further we could break up.. I want to top her friday nite but I dont no how to... Please help??? should i ask her 1st??...

He flirts with me then goes cold, how do I know if he really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I'm a girl. This boy who I hardely know, Flirts with me. He's also 13. Lately hes been talking dirty and saying hey. He hasent bugged me for 3 days almost. What does it mean if he hasent bugged me for 3 days?...

I really try hard to crack a smile or laugh from her.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - Hello!! Long one sorry lol I've been with my Girlfriend now for a month, we broke up after a year and half relationship, 5/6 months went by and we got back together. During the start of the month all was well and we were having a laugh and s...

Does he really like me or is it just when his mates aren't there??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Does he really like me or is it just when his mates aren't there?? My boyfriend is 16 and i am 15 and we have been together for about a 6 weeks now. At first he was amazing and we were always together then he was always with his mates somewhere ...

Do I wait until he sorts himself out, or do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - i met a man at work a few mths ago we were flirting 4 a while and he told me he was separted after a 15 yr relationship, we started texting and had a few dates he told me that he was really happy and never felt so relaxed with anyone else then his ...

What makes a man fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - What makes a man fall in love with a woman that he is seeing? Is it when he feels like a lucky man? What are the things that made you fall in love, or that you felt were important in determining that this woman was one that was special enough for ...

My boyfriend has a big problem with my sexual past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - the discussion has come up about my sexual past, now seven months on my boy friend will no stop going on about it. he says that because i have liberal,views on sex that i will cheat on him. it would not even cross my mind. i am really being hen ...

Does this shy guy like me? What move should I make?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - There's a guy that I really like, and I think he may like me. He's quite shy too. He'll look at me, and sometimes he'll stare at me for a long time when we change classes. When I talk to him, though it's not often, he doesn't seem to mind talking ...

My girlfriend doesn't like my friendships about other females

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I have a problem with my partner. She has this ridiclous prevailant attitude about my interactions with the women at work. I think she is just jealous and possessive!! It is like she doesn't even want me to relate to anybody outside my immediate ...

How can I tell how serious we are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - how serious is he? Im 18 and so is he, - we have been going out for 5 months now. before we started dating i left a relationship where i was cheated on and im contantly worried it will happen again, i guess im scarred. im pretty certain he wont ...

How do I get him to talk to me about his feelings or talk to a counsellor when he doesn't admit he has problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I do love my boyfriend to death. He is a kind of person who does not show his emotion and he never wants to talk about his feelings. That is his pesronality and all his friends know about it so it is not just with me. I had tried to talk to him ...

I didn't insist to know her past; now I wonder if she's ever been married or has had kids. How to put my mind at rest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - hi am 25 years of age going out with a women of 35, thats not the issue at hand what is that she has told me that there are things in her past that she thinks will hurt me but i told not to tell me coz they would probbably mess things up, its now ...

Is this a relationship or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Ok i think i maybe blind rite now in this stitution and i need help with this cuz iv never done anything like this this b4 iv always hav had guys ask me out like as being there gf but i hav this guy friend who asked me if i wanted to go out with him ...

My friends say he's a bully and that he'll dump me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I really like this guy and im not quite sure if he likes me or not. its not just about his looks, hes really sweet and kind and generous, but all my friends keep saying that hes a bully and he will just go out with me just for fun and then dump ...

For the ladies: what signs do I look for to find out if she may like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - (question for the ladies) I have a friend that im starting to getter closer with every moment. We have laugh, have great conversations, and we keep it real. Are there any signs to show that she may like me? ...

I am always the one to initiate sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - Ok, so I have been dating my girlfriend for about 1 and a half years, and we have been through a lot together. I am a junior (almost senior) in college and she is working at her dad's bank as a teller, so she obviosly gets more money than I do (her ...

How do I know if he just wants something casual or a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Ok so my question may not be all that serious or big, but I think if I dont make the right decision now, it may turn into a bigger problem later down the track... I have this friend who I am pretty sure likes me alot! And I am def attracted to him...

His ex wants him back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 2 months. He broke up with his ex girlfriend 7 months ago. But I found out they slept with each other a month before we got together. He said they were out with mutual friends, both very drunk, she pounced and 'too...

In love with my roomate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - I have lived with this girl for 3 and a half years now, ever since I came to university. We have been close friends over that entire period. The problem is that I have fallen in love with her and have no idea how she feels. Neither of us have ever ...

I'm too slow to act and suffering the consequences. Can you help me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - There is a little bit of background to this so bear with me. I have been at university for a year and a half now and last year I met a girl. We had some stuff in common (we are part of the same society - it was how we met) and whenever I saw h...

Why cant I form a real connection with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - I've started seeing a girl now we met before christmas and she's a great person. For some odd reason though I'm starting to question whether I should be in a relationship at all as I have always found it difficult to connect to someone. I don't know ...

I have a crush on my TA. Should I email him and tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Over fall quarter, I developed a major crush on one of my TAs. Winter break has just started and I'm debating on whether or not I should email him and tell him that I have a crush on him. We got along pretty well throughout the quarter, but would it ...

I feel vulnerable discovering that my bf has been in bars chatting up women behind my back. He says he hasn't cheated though. I don't know what to think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated 4 months ago and I am trying to get things organised to be with him which is proving really difficult both financially and legally. We recently met up for a weeks holiday half-way to save on flight costs and time and afte...

I am feeling so unattractive! I was thinking of going out just to see if I would get hit on, to boost my self esteem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - hi I shall be very short and sweet been with a guy for nearly 4 years. Since i was 16 basically He is the only guy I have had a serious relationship with and the only guy I have ever done anything sexual with beyond a quick kiss or french kissing (...

She likes me, but says she isnt ready to date yet. How can I get her ready?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - So, I just met this girl who shows that she likes me, and even admitted to it... we have not been out on a date yet, because she says she is not ready.... however, she somehow keeps showing up at the library and the gym were i work out. she said ...

How do I get her to admit she likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - there is a girl in my class and i like her and its pretty obvious that she likes me. i need to know how to make her admit she likes me, she's a tough one to crack. what do you think? ...

Never had a boyfriend and my aunt gives me a hard time about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Hi i'm a girl who has never had a boyfriend and i don't know why ? I mean i have talked to guys before but i only had one guy friend and he is gay . anyway my dilemma is my height . I am 4'9 and my aunt who i hate so much keeps asking my parents why ...

I want her back but she cheated, could I learn to trust again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - I love a girl forever, we have been best of friends for a long, and we dated once briefly. I know she loves me but we never got physical, after we broke up we stayed good friends but she slept with my best friend, at the time!! We were cool for a ...

Should I try to move the friendship forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - There's this guy I met about 2yrs ago, and we both really like each other. However, although he has never said anything directly to me, I don't think he wants a relationship at all right now. Should I just carry on talking to him as normal, like ...