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writes:hi, im 16 and what i feel is that i am madly in love with that girl. From past three-four days i have been thinking of her all the time. I do everything with her in my mind. ive given up masturbation and pornography. But on the other side it has affected me nagatively. I feel slightly depressed and my sleep is disturbed. Even though I take a nine hour sleep, i still feel sleepy all the day and want to be alone just thinking of her. I wanted to ask that is it lovesickness and if it is then how should i overcome it. The other problem is that the girl doesnt know me. She studies in another school (where my sister studies) and i have no way to reach her. Please help me out.
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 I'm in the same situation! Seriously, you just gotta arrange a situation where you can both accidentally on-purpose 'happen' to talk...
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reader, zann +, writes (8 December 2007):
zann is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx mushgirl for the advice... i agree that its strange tht i dont know her well and she doesnt know me completely... but my feelings are really strong... i had tried to get along with girls i know well , but the feelings i have for her (even though she is a stranger ) are far more stronger..
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (5 December 2007):
I don't know... I mean, it's not really being 'in love' unless you know the girl, but obviously there's something about her which has driven you crazy about her. I usually trust these kinds of instincts, and they are usually right. But you are not in love. Anyway, that's not the point, eh? You wanna get to know this girl! How well do you get along with your sister? Are they friends? Maybe you could ask her to introduce you to this girl. Or you could arrange some kind of joint party or something, with both your friends and hers, and get her to invite your love interest along. Or you could try 'meeting your sister' outside school, and just happen to bump into this girl. And believe me, girls like confident guys. A smile and a "Hey, you're super-hot" could be all you need. Good luck!
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