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30-35,
*uliana334
writes:I always thought my boyfriend was attractive, but I never thought he would like me as he's 3 years older than me and was going to go away to university in Scotland in September (where he is now), however, to cut a long story short, he finally asked me out and we have been together five months (by this xmas). The only thing is, is that when I look at other couples I see how much they talk and have fun with each other like friends.Me and my boyfriend don't really have that. We have a strong emotional connection and share the same interests, but personality wise there is nothing much going on between us it's rather simple and 'nice'. I feel like it's going slowly when it should be at its peak. I trust him and know that he cares about me.My friends say I shouldn't compare us to other couples as every relationship is different but I just don't know if it's normal though..This is my first relationship and I'm his third.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): Ypu like him he likes you you care and trust for eachother the spark in ypure relationship should be that you have this relationship with trust and caring as long as you like eachother who cares that you do not act like best mates that will come withj time honest really it wil
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 My husband and I were at a resort recently where we observed some couples that were laughing and parading about, basically putting on a show and I said to my husband in jest - "Why can't we be like the popular couples?". But half of the time one of the husbands was observing us, so I guess we all have that "The grass is always greener on the other side" feeling. Frankly, I'd hate to have to be "On" all of the time and I'm not terribly interested in partying so even if I sigh wistfully at someone else's lifestyle, I know that in my heart I am happy where I am. We simply enjoy being with each other and have the same sense of humour. If you have a really deep understanding with your partner, you probably have 95% of what most people actually are looking for.
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