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The boy who likes me has hurt my two friends he's been in relationships with. I am scared the history will repeat itself, so should I accept him?

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Question - (4 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my best friend recently told me he likes me and ive liked him for ages and never even thought i stood a chance with him. most of my frieds are telling me i should go for it, but hes been out with two of my closest friends and he really hurt them. we both go to single sex schools so we meeet up every weekend and the last week he introduced me to his mum. i really want it to work out with him but im scared that hell do the same to me as he has to my friends, he promised me hes changed, and when im with him i feel really good, but i dont know what to do! help?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007):

it is a fact that history repeats itself, but its also a fact that you will never know unless you try, you will not not know what true love is if you have'nt experience pain..

if you love someone go for it,...but there are such thing as boundaries..

why would you stay into something that you know in the end you will be a broken person..

experience is the best teacher...

be proud...

follow your instincts but be careful and be equip with what the consequences are...

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (4 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntWell to me, just because one person has a bad reputation of breaking people's hearts in the past, that doesnt necesarily mean that they will continue this in the future. People can change. People go through stages where its all fun and games but as people get older, their maturity level begins to increase and thats when they start to consider a serious relationship. Give the guy a chance. Maybe he has changed. Just in case he hasnt, be careful on what you do and how you begin feeling for him. Talk to both of your friends about this guy. They should know more about him.

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