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writes:Hey! Great site by the way. I am a 27 year old fella. I have had long-term girlfriends, short term girlfriends and everything else in between. I split from my last bird over a year ago. Problem is this: I don't feel the *need* to have a girlfriend. I'm pretty happy just to cruise along the way I am and if someone comes into my life... But if not - well, their loss! I'm not looking. I'm not trying. Is there anything wrong with this?! Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help, especially Irish - really appreciated :-)
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (11 September 2005):
 Yes..you are normal and more people should allow themselves to have the contentment with life that you have. Many don't achieve that station in life. Too often people get wrapped in that feeling they aren't complete or whole...if they don't have someone to share their life with. That's neediness and it's very unattractive and self-defeating. Confidence and a strong belief in you will, is very important life and quite often, people like you are the happiest.
I think it's great that you acknowledge and accept accountability for your life. You don't play "the poor little me" game just because you aren't attached at the hip with someone. So many people have a hard time dealing with loneliness because they are convinced that solace and aloneness is a bad thing...when really it's not. It's all a matter of one's perspective in life. So keep being you and just take life...each day as it comes. Good luck
Hugs,
Irish
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reader, pops +, writes (10 September 2005):
Please, stay as celebate as possible. Don't inflict yourself on nice women. If you can't love anyone other than yourself, stay single.
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reader, myteamum +, writes (9 September 2005):
Hiya hun,No there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.and some women feel the same way too.We don`t all need partners or spouses to feel good or complete.In fact some people like yourself can easily do without but i am sure that you yourself will know when the right person enters into your life be it now or in years to come whats the rush?Go at the pace which suits you best.good luck dont worry you are a normal fella .
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