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My girlfriend is almost perfect, except for hairy nipples...

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Question - (26 September 2005) 75 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2014)
A male , *hilip writes:

I have started dating a lovely girl. Perfect in almost every way except, she has quite hairy nipples. It's fine to say I should just ignore this little problem. However, how do I suggest that she might want to get rid of the hairs, without seeming rude?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2014):

anymore. I think he that we are just adhering to a set of standards and taste. I mean come on its hair for crying out loud. We have it on our heads .on are faces as eyebrows and eyelasheHe. heck we have freaking pubes. I think were making a bigger deal out of this then it has to be. I mean will all this superficial beauty standards really matter when were all dead. Heck no. If the hair on her boobs really bothers you. Ask yourself what would bother you more her nipple hair or her not being with you. I wish y'all best of luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2014):

I think the problem lies in society itself. If women were known for being hairy like men . and if it was accepted there wouldn't be this problem. Honestly I dfon't think it bothers women cause of the hairs themselves. But what really bothers them is that of they were to get into an intimate relationship with a man. Once they had sex. And he found out about her so called hair problem. He wouldn't want her

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A male reader, John Balone United States +, writes (21 January 2012):

Hairy nipples are NOT abnormal. Many women of the Mediterranean area (ITALY,SPAIN etc.)have some hair on their nipples. If your girlfriend is concerned she should seek the advice of a dermatologist...never act on your own. I find women with a little hair sexy!

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A male reader, Red4eva United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2011):

Hi, my wife has hairy nipples andy I love it. It is not a problem. She is of Latin origin and has a really hairy pussy up to her crack. Personally, it worried her and I told her I love her for who she is. She is extremely beautiful with a great body. She shaves her legs, pits and lets her bush roam free. Totally natural and it is what real women are like and not what the mags and movies want you to see.

If you have hairy nipples take it from me men are not worried about this at all.

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A male reader, rolfen Lebanon +, writes (16 July 2010):

rolfen agony auntMost here insist on saying that it's "NORMAL" for a girl to have some hair around the nipples. But no-one here to tell me whether it's normal for a guy to be a bit unsettled by that hair when he's looking right into it, and to have a bad feeling about it...?

So, is that normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010):

You don't have to make her do anything! This is commom among women and girls and it's very normal. Just ignore it.

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A male reader, searay United States +, writes (24 April 2010):

Don't make her remove them! I think hairy nipples are the sexiest thing imaginable on a girl! I remember the first time I ever encountered this on a girlfriend in high school. I have had lots of girlfriends from all over the world, and 90% of them have had hairy nipples. The blond girls have had the most, like 1 inch long and dark.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010):

I find it interesting how a lot of women responding to this question suggest various ways of removing the hair, while a lot of men say it's OK and that they like it or at least don't care. Women are too insecure :)

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (3 February 2010):

Not My Name agony auntBuy her a gift voucher to a beauty clinic that does laser hair removal. Grab some pamphlets whilst there getting th voucher and make sure a laser hair removal one is amongst them.

You dont have to implie it is for her nips, ... it could be for leg hairs, bikin line, upper lip, ..or somehting non depilatory like a facial, manicure, lash tint, whatever, ... then sit back and pray that she seizes the opportunity to be done with the nipple hair once and for all.

Tha said, she may not have aprob with her nip hair since she has actually let you see it over being vigilant with other removal methods, .. but personally, not being judgemental coz I dont have a perfect body just like everyone else, ..but I find it hard to fathom a woman being blase about somethign like that. If I had hairy nips I would be over the moon at such a gift anyway.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010):

are you nuts, chicks with hairy nipples are HOT

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A female reader, Miss know it all! United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2010):

Im only 16 and I have hairy nipples, dont be such a perfectionist, you say she's perfect, but then you complain about her having hairy nipples, if you love her, I mean actually love her then this shouldnt matter!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009):

I've got hairy nips, and ingrown hairs. I try to take care of them but it's hard to keep up with. My man doesn't care... you shouldn't either, just accept her how she is..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009):

Just be straight up with your girlfriend and while your on the topic ask her if their is anything that you could do for her like shave your asshole hairs your dirty boar.

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A male reader, Jay Hammers United States +, writes (26 November 2009):

Men do not exist to do the bidding of women. There's a reason men are naturally the dominant ones in relationships.

Women who won't do one nice thing for their men have issues. They're the same women who will steal your children away if they tire of you, cheat on you because they think they're too good for you, try to control you in every way possible. It's a very small thing to do to please someone they're supposed to care about.

If your girl really is "perfect" for you, she will happily do this one small thing for you. If not, dump her and find a girl who respects your feelings.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

just read this in BFC. seriously dude, if kids are in the future that could pose a unhealthy risk to the baby. Suckling milk while dangly hair become tangled in the fritters mouth would be horrible. As for sex, maybe try squirting a little man-maise spread on there and experiment w/ some ¨New Millennium¨ Art. Art Bell was noted as saying that is mother had breast fed him until he was 15 and her nip-hair was the length of a shallow´s penis. Anyhoot, google Phil Elmore he may have info. on the subject at hand.

Cheers

F.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

i don't know if you really have a problem with it :) i may be able to help - when you are doing some really orgasmic things not only sex i don't know what you will do , when you're kissing her nipples maybe start to bite them gentle but sometimes bite some hair out and waa la-dehaired nipples

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

Personally i feel you should accept your girlfriend for the way she is, and if she has not got a problem with the nipple hair then you should not either, it obviously doesnt bother her. And anyways i am sure there are many things that piss her off about you too!

As for American women being superior, this is a reckless sweeping statement from a person who has never travelled abroad, or maybe he has never met a woman before except for his mum. I suggest getting out of your basement and doing some travelling and get back to me when you have experienced what real women are like!

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A male reader, shittoSCOTUS United States +, writes (3 May 2009):

You all have this entirely wrong. If the individual hairs don't substantially affect you, but the aggregation of all nipple hair does, you certainly can require her to shave it or do it yourself. Even if the effect is tenuous at best you probably can say something to her. But if you do say something you better have specific findings as to why it affects you so much. She still might be upset with you.

Don't forget you can rely on foreign sources - women from other countries frequently are hairy, but not in the U.S. Use this only as expository of why American women are superior and not as a substantive reason for wanting her to shave her nipple hair, otherwise she might be bound to some other international norms, which you want to avoid at all costs.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009):

I personally love hair nipples and I recommend you that you leave them as be and enjoy each strand of hairy goodness. Why change her body?

To the girl who recommends shaving the girl when drunk, I say shame on you! Can you imagine having your autonomy violated? How would you feel?

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A female reader, tangirl06 United States +, writes (3 May 2009):

I too have hairy nipples. Guys check me out all the time (I hope) when I go to class and study in the library. It's a strange feeling that they do not know my secret.

Anyway, I advise that the next time she is passed out drunk you shave them yourself. That way you get the off and she doesn't get pissed off. Additionally, when they are gone and they come back real small they will be annoying and she will be forced to shave them off herself and this you will have returning profits on your investment. It is the way to go.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008):

i don't think there is a non-offensive way to ask her about it. but if you love her, it shouldn't matter that much if she keeps the hairs. if she loves you, it shouldn't matter that much if she has to put effort into removing the hairs. kind of a paradox i guess. but one thing is for sure, she knows they're there and knows that you don't like them. given that, she's probably expecting you to be mature enough to just accept it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

First, you must tell her that you love her body. Then, you may want to suggest that while shaving her armpits she might want to shave some "other parts". If she wonders what you were talking about, say, "well I noticed that you forgot to get your, you know, nipples".

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

Enjoy the phenomenon, I personally find hairy nipples very sexsy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

you could also suggest laser hair removal. for instance if you have a hairy back you could make a day out of it...there is always electrolysis if there arent too many hairs

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

I just think you should talk to her about it,like ask her what are turn offs for her and then tell her what are your turn off points.This will make her realize it without telling her straight up...Its kind of hard because I have never seen that before thank god.But remember the inside is what counts...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

No... She will be insulted and hurt. I suggest you buy her some hair creame and provide her with a small nipple brush.

GL Dorthy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

ok, well it seems by reading all these responses that most women seem to have hairy nipples, I too have hairy nipples, but i just pluck the dark ones...only because i myself dont like them, my boyfriend used to ask me to pluck mine, but he used to be playful and jokey about it...not rude at all...so i didnt mind sorting making them neater.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008):

I, like many of the women who have responded here, have hair growth around my nipples. Through plucking, I developed a very painful ingrown last summer that developed into a cyst. I had this pea-sized lump because of it next to my nipple which basically kept developing more scar tissue beneath it. It wasn't until nearly a year later that it finally ruptured- releasing puss, blood, dead skin and one mangled hair. I know the details are unpleasant, but why put your girl through that? I'm sure you have hair on your nipples too.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008):

My wife has hairy nipples too, actually big long nipples. I noticed it when we met, made a coment once and she just seems to keep them shaved. Doesn't matter to me really, as long as she lets me spend a little time with them once in a while, lol. I'm hairy as an ape, me no complain!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

I actually have very hairy nipples. My husband always tells me, "mow the grass, and while your at it get the trees off the moutians". Personally its not very funny. Sometimes, I cry... Honestly it hurts to shave nipples, and to get them waxed leaves a pinkish rash that looks like a 3rd or 4th nipple. I suggest you just live with the hairy nipples until they just turn gray and fall off. By the way if you tell her and piss her off she will do what I do. Put them in his coffee.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008):

Who Cares? Breasts are so much fun to play with. Over the winter, my fiancee doesn't shave her legs much at all (why bother if she doesn't wear shorts). I still touch her legs, stubble/hair and all. Hair is natural, the problem is not with her nipples it is with you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

I have got insanely hairy nipples.Over 20 on one and about 10 on the other.I am so..self conscious about it. I have asked about laser but im scared of the consequences(cancer), electrolysis would be too sore,tried plucking thats why one is hairier than the other so now I'm just hairy.I get really nervous of new guys seeing my nipples.Hairy women is a total turn off.We get it!Im sure she will talk about it with you eventually.She'll love you more if you can just accept her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

Honestly, saying anything about it will probably hurt her feelings and/or get her angry at you - I know that's how I'd react if MY boyfriend said something like that!

Some girls will get pissed off, dump you, and bitch to their friends about how a guy doesn't appreciate their body. Some girls will internalize it and get really depressed about their boyfriend not thinking they're pretty enough. Some girls will shave/pluck if you ask them, but get really passive-aggressive and resentful about having to please you, and that will drive you apart.

I would just try to get used to it. If you have some kind of body-hair phobia, she might understand, but otherwise it will just make you look like a jerk, especially if you say it's out of love. She might think that you can't appreciate her the way she is, and that will ruin a relationship, no matter how much you REALLY care about her.

However, if SHE brings it up and asks you if you think she should get rid of the hairs, then you should be able to give her your opinion without hurting her feelings.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008):

There is no way to suggest this without being mean.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

My wife used to have fairly hairy nipples,but as she aged,the hair seemed to thin away. I love hairy nipples.

It is just a very nice extra you don't have to pay for.

It's like buying a new truck,and the dealer gives you A.C. and a bedliner for free. Why would you NOT want your partner in a natural state? Do not tamper with perfection.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

I find hairy nipples to be the absolute in eroticism...and would give anything if my girl had them...you are blessed and don't realize it...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

tell her to wax them

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008):

Love her the way she is and get over it! Trust me, you'll win more points with her in the long run if you refrain from pointing out things YOU find wrong with her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008):

Don't wax or pluck.. just shave them, it's easier and painless.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

In reply to my childrens father, I have hairy nips and one of the reasons i don't bother to pluck them is so that he does'nt want to come anywhere near me! Maybe when he grows a few more inches, develops a new personality, has a face transplant etc, then maybe i might bother. Til then I'm staying hairy!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007):

i tweezer the hairs and now im getting ingrown ones.. I feel a bit stuck now...cos i have tried to get to the ingrown ones and caused myself some unnecessary pain. whats the most effective safe hair removal in that area? I cant possibly tell my boyfriend i wud be so embarrased.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

Man im feelin u, im in luv with this gurl too and shes perfect and all , but she does have hair on her chest and nipples. Im thnking about telling her to get rid of the hairs before its too late, so i think you should give it a try by asking in a unrude manner. Just tell her straight out, you have nothing to lose if she truely loves you. Tell her it is out of love.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

well u could slowly bring it up whit her..

its not rude.. girls exspect that ur onest to them!

and just say ur mind how u think about her..

and everything will be fine

greets..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

My wife had the same problem. But, after our first child was born - the hairs all dissapeaered. Something hormonally changed in her body during pregnancy and the hairs have been gone ever since. I suggest you get her pregnant!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

Meh. I got hairy nips. I only and I repeat only pluck the dark ones

I've been with my boy for 2 years and he doesn't care. Plus to when I've "been" with boyfriends before they've never mentioned anything

It comes and goes

Just leave it. She will do something about it in her own time. We do notice.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

accept it dude, whats the big deal, i think its kinda erotic. are you perfect?????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007):

Realistically mate learn to love it, its a part of a woman, don't be grossed out. If she plucks or waxes she'll only get ingrown hairs, and thats neither fun for her or you staring at her unsightly nipple bumps. So just let the hair be and love it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007):

She should just pluck them out! I do and my friends do and it is no problem.

Just bring up a similar hairy issue on your body and ask her what you should do about it. She might then feel bad for you and bring u her hairy nipple problem with you and then in is up for discussion.

Or just stay with her for a few years and she may then feel comfortable about talking to you about it. I mean in the end are you with her because you love her, or are you just shallow!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

im only 15 and i suffer with hairy nipples its a COMPLETE nightmare and i thought i was on my own! now after lookin at all these sights ive realised that im not the only woman that suffers!

i am one of the most self concisous people u will ever meet and unless u want ur girlfriend to NEVER show u her breats again i would stay WELL AWAY from mentioning anything to her ! it will do no good and trust me she already noes and is very consious about it

do u want to mess up a relationship u have over some hair ? it doesnt affect the sex and as that is the most important thing on the male mind i would leave the subject RIGHT alone !!

if anny one has any ways of gettin rid of the hair could you please post it on here !

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007):

I wouldn't worry about it, I think it's very erotic.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007):

A little hair around the nipples is quite normal in adult females (yes, look it up if you doubt me). My advice is to get over it and focus on things that really matter like her brains and personality. And DON'T do or say anything about your girlfriend's body that could undermine her self-confidence. You'll live to regret it. Finally, I'm sure she could find something about your body that might be a turn-off to her. After all, it's a two-way street. . . So, how about letting go of this really minor thing, hmmm?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007):

What's the problem? The women I've had sex with happened to have hairy nipples. One, dare I say, had beautiful circles around her nipples.

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A male reader, lewbee United States +, writes (24 June 2007):

After kissing her breasts or something of the sort, simply tell her that you got a hair caught in your mouth and try to get it out (you know how we all do it) as if you don't know where it came from. She already knows she has hairy nipples which is worst than her having hairy pits and hair running down her legs when she wears a bathing suit. If that doesn't work, mention it to her after a decent day somewhere.. Don't ruin her great day of dinnder out though.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

my current gf has hairy nipples. at first i was a bit freaked out, but didn't mention it as she is perfect in all ways. with time, I just grew to accept them. she admitted after some time of going out that she is self-conscious of them, and asked what i thought. i just told her that they seem normal, and she can do whatever she wants to them (i.e. leave the hair or get rid of it). after this chat, she pretty much tweezers them once a fortnight or so. Basically, I think the best answer to your question is give it time.

Also, I don't know of any correlation between plucking, waxing and laser treatment for removing nipple hair and breast cancer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2006):

I've had hairy nipples ever since I went thru puberty. I always thought maybe I wasn't normal but I'm in my early 20's now and I now it's perfectly natural. Not EVERY woman has hair on her nipples, which is why some people think it isn't normal and even get turned off by it sometimes. But I don't think a girl should ever have to be made to feel self-conscious about something that is so completely natural. If you don't like hairy nipples, go find a woman without them. Don't try and have a woman change her body tho.

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A female reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (24 April 2006):

prttymtlkitty agony auntWhooh, you guys are scaring me. Nair on sensitive areas = hot sauce on your testies! I've got serious burns from that stuff. I do myself have hair in strange places, and mortified. I inspect my body everyday, tweeze, shave, use creams and refuse to surrender!

Whatever you do, do it in a loving, concerned manner since this type of hair depending on if excessive could mean hormone trouble, as I do have PCOS. Read up about it, seem educated, informed, and work it from that angle. Maybe even offer to help her take care of whatever causes it. Be supportive, not condesending considering you'll be growing bean sprouts (hair)from your ears one day!lol!

Since I do have it myself, and mortified, and if my bf asked me about it, I would feel better if it wasn't in vain (even if thats the case).

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006):

My wife has very hairy nipples, and I find it a real turn on

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006):

OK mate, so you want the hair gone. Have you thought about how this can be done safely, with the risk of breast cancer looming large, even if you leave this sensitive area alone.

In my 25 year pursuit of a solution:

Tweezing, waxing & NAIR causes ingrown hairs & the associated sores in this really sensitive spot. The hair keeps growing back, as another has indicated, sometimes worse than before!

Ultrasonic sound tweezing will take years of hours to reduce the growth, also with ingrown hair results.

Who in their right mind would use laser therapy in this area?

As for hormone treatment...are you also happy to risk having no kids?

So mate, she may remove the hair and loose the breast...is that what you want?

Think of it as a primeaval feature to drive you wild!!!

1/1000 as hairy as my brother but still too hairy for some.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006):

I started to get hairy nipples in my early 20's i was mortified and thought my man would go off me. I suggest you don't say anything, i was so obsessed with the hairs on my nipples that i plucked them to death and ended up with a nasty skin infection that took years to heal and look better, lucky for me my mans more of a bum man and we laugh about it now. Take it from me if I could turn back time I would have left the soft hairs that grew originally well alone, you don't want to lick nipples with bristles.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2006):

My wife has hairy nipples and I find it is quite a turn on.

Hair is normal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006):

i would suggest u didnt imply she had hairy nipples.she would be mortified to know everyone is discussing her nipples over the net. casually ask her one night what she'd change about you (because im sure your not 100% perfect yourself). and lightly mention it in a joking way, make her feel u dont HATE it and she wont be so embarrased and joke, you could always make it sexy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006):

When your in the shower together would be a good time. How you tell her is up to you man?

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (31 December 2005):

mystify agony auntdont suggest to her to remove the hair from her nipples , im sure she would be mortified, not to mention the fact that its normal! it would be like a chick laughing at you when you pulled down your pants!!!! please DONT! if you dont like it concentrate on something else!

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A male reader, pzeller +, writes (31 December 2005):

pzeller agony auntYou're wanting her to change, well that's up to her. There is nothing wrong with her, though.

If you want her to change that, be prepared to offer up something in return (I'll shave this if you shave that). But if you offer, be ready to do it. In other words, what's good for the goose...

That said, hair is normal, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you decide to talk to her about this, you need to acknowledge to her that this is a matter of your personal preference, and not anything wrong with her. She should not be made to feel bad for being NORMAL.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2005):

You are implying that because she had hairy nipples it is an imperfection... body hair is natural. I have slightly hairy nipples man and i was always very self conscious of them. Until when i was having sex with my current boyfriend, he played with that area and wasn't remotely bothered...i bet theres things of you that she wants to change....but people should accept (what you see as) 'flaws' in a partner.

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A male reader, Tim +, writes (27 November 2005):

Tim agony auntAsk her to employ u as a hair removal agent and I suggest don't pull them out with ur teeth u might end up losing one or two teeth, as nipples hair are too strong to be pulled out by teeth try wax her sexy hairy nipples ;)

Happy good waxing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2005):

If it doesn't bother her then it shouldnt bother you leave it be. (The NAIR night does sound like fun)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005):

do you practice oral sex on your girl? if so, then eat the hair on her breasts!! hair is natural, not freakish.

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A female reader, kissy +, writes (10 November 2005):

Hairy Balls, hairy back, hairy shoulders, horrible facial hair, balding, nose hair, hairy hands, hairy toes!!!

What the hell is wrong with you!!!!!

Nobody is perfect, if your girlfriend feels uncomfortable with her hairy nipples, which I'm sure she does, she will do something about it when she is good and ready. You want to get your nipples waxed???

I don't think you understand how much girls have to worry about. We have to make sure there is limited facial hair, smooth legs, no fat, no cellulite, no stretch marks, a neat bush, and your asking your girl to do more.

Seriously?

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A female reader, caffeinequeen +, writes (1 November 2005):

Small price to pay for a perfect g.friend! Bring your razor and ask her to shave a spot of your body,that she would rather see hair-free, then reciprocate on hers! Some women like men who shave their armpits...Some don't.Be prepared to be surprised.BTW tweezing is better.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005):

I for one would just want to know if something was turning my boyf off, especially something so trivial! I mean come on most woman have one or two hairs around their nipples right?

If you point them out in a joking kinda 'oh babe you have iccle hairs round your nipples do ya wanna borrow my razor?' Im sure she would take the hint.

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A reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (27 September 2005):

I Dont Lie agony auntOooh, I can imagine how you feel!! I for one wouldnt find that a turn on. You could try this tho. Try initiating a conversation about famous people and then slowly slip into how they always seem to have the perfect bodies!! Then say a generalising statement like, how u notice most of them have tanned, clean shaven bodies!! Well, what you're trying to do here is to hint to her subtly what sort of girls you like and what turns you on/off!! Hopefully, if shes smart enough, she'll get it. If you still see no changes, I guess your only way to let her know about that is to have a non-insulting conversation with her! Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2005):

hey my girlfriend did that once, when she stopped and started changing positions i busted everywhere, it was ridiculous, i didnt know wtf she was doing i was kinda scared, the anticipation killed me cause i also am insanely ticklish and it tickled at the same time as made me b ust when she wasnt even touching me anymore, i tried to hold it back: \ it was too rough on the sack!

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2005):

harshbutfair agony auntYou could pull them out with your teeth (the hairs, not the nipples) next time you're in that area?

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A female reader, Delirius +, writes (26 September 2005):

The only thing I can think of that would not be overly offensive would be to have a NAIR Night. Nair is one of those Depilatory creams that dissolves body hair at the base of each follicle. For this to be equitable, you will need to be removing some hair as well, so Nipples and Brazilian style (bald) for your girl and for you, crass as this sounds, Back, Crack and Sack. Now, before you freak out, there is a benefit for you to participate in this little exercise. My BF won't do this as he is insanely ticklish, but some of my married friends recommend a technique they call the hummer where the woman places the mans hairless sack in her mouth and simply hums, no particular tune required, apparently you will go off like the fourth of July.

Something to consider?!

Whatever you do, try to make it fun and fair.

Hmmm, Hmmm, Hmmm, Hmmm.

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