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How do I get my bf to try anal with me?

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Question - (10 July 2019) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2019)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Straight to the point, how do I get my bf to try anal with me? I’ve brought it up a couple of times and I’ve done it before with other bf’s but my bf now is the most respectful guy that even when we have sex he asks if he can do certain things which is fine but I’m def missing some more experimental things within our sex life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2019):

You said it. Be..."Straight to the point!"

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (11 July 2019):

My opinion is that you should ask him DURING sex, right before he's about to put it in. Tell him where you want him to put it. If he can resist that I don't know what to tell you!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (11 July 2019):

Honeypie agony aunt1. don't bring up PAST experiences with him. He doesn't NEED to be told you did anal with an ex and loved it. OK?

TALK to him (not during or right after sex) about trying some new things. Make sure you have condoms for this. TELL him what you would like to TRY with him and ASK him what HE would like to try with you.

Let's say he ISN'T into anal, then you are JUST going to have to respect that boundary, just like HE would have to respect ANY of your boundaries.

TALK. TO. HIM.

IF you two can have sex... you can talk.

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