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If you don't have dating/sexual experience do you fake it till you make it?

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Question - (23 March 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2014)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

If I don't have any sexual experience, how do I go about in my everyday life meeting girls, faking it til I make it? I see plenty of guts out in bars doing it all the time. It's about time I get in on the action while my junk still works!

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A female reader, Keeley345 United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2014):

Be confident and approach girls. Right now that's important in order to meet someone. Work on your manners e.g be courteous, offer to buy a drink for a girl basically be a gentleman. We love that! Try out kissing although I'm sure you've be there before.

Once you meet the right girl, sex will follow. Just relax and let things happen in their own time.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (23 March 2014):

chigirl agony auntIm not sure I understand your question. What would you be faking? I really hope you dont start talking about your sexual experience with girls, because nothing is as much of a turn off as that. So what would you be faking? Besides fake bragging in conversations which would be highly inappropriate anyway?

And, do you have some type of medical problem that means your "junk" will stop "working" any time soon?

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A female reader, agneeman South Africa +, writes (23 March 2014):

agneeman agony auntDon't fake it. A girl like me would find it kinda sexy that you don't have experience. I'd love to be the first one to tale some one there ...

Just be yourself man.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (23 March 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI am a 63-year-pld guy, and - believe me - I started "faking it" DECADES ago.... and I fake it, now.... and expect I will continue faking it until they plant me 6 feet down!!!!

You're in good company.

Good luck...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 March 2014):

Honeypie agony auntWhy not sign up for one of the MANY hook up sites? There are plenty of NSA (no strings attached)sites.

Because you aren't looking for a GF, just a blow up doll to confirm your penis works.

Faking confidence is harder then you think.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2014):

Yes get in on the action. Just don't fall in love with the first one bc of sex alone. The ladies won't place as much importance on it as you will, so just have some fun with them. Don't worry about if it should be meaningful or not which I assume is why you waited so long. If she wants to do it, just enjoy her. Good luck.

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