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anonymous
writes:I dated a guy for several months, we broke up for 6 months and I saw him again and we reconnected. It was what seemed a fresh start where we talked about how we hoped to have a future together. But he is in the military and got stationed on the other side of the U.S. He is moving in a couple of days and besides a few texts I haven't heard from him or seen him. Is he in his "cave" or does he actually not like me and is showing me by pretty much ignoring me?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 October 2012):
 The most important detail of/in your question is missing. Would you care to provide it?
It is: Did you and he do s*x?
Response can be offered upon receipt of this detail....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2012): Thank you for replying, it does make sense that he would want to distance himself. Hopefully I will get that chance to talk to him. I'll keep you posted!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2012):
 He probably thinks that the best way to handle this move is to distance himself from you now to avoid any hurt it might cause to have to say goodbye. But I agree with Xearo the best way to find out what is going on in his head is to arrange a day to meet up with him and ask him outright what it is he wants.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (28 October 2012):
Kind of hard to tell considering the circumstances but you'll need to talk to him about these things, hopefully in person.
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