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writes:Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, she's really sweet and I do my best to embrace her and send her cute texts and emails. The other night, she was a little down on confidence so I spent a couple texts flattering her. She asked me playfully to "stop melting me" of course I knew she was loving it. I mentioned to her I loved her so much if I had the confidence I would "kiss her tommorow". She didn't reply for about 15 minutes, and when she did - she said she "blacked out." I asked her if that was a good black out and she said absolutely. So my question for you is - how long do I wait to make my move? I don't want her to feel uncomfortable, and I want it to be romantic. Let me also say we don't see each other much outside of school because of our schedules - so what's the best time in a school setting to kiss her? Thanks a million to anyone who gives me tips!
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reader, franny1297  +, writes (26 October 2012):
 take her to the park, your place or some place where no-one will see you, get her to really like you. edge close to her up your arm round her and when you feel like it's the right moment look deep into her eyes and kiss her. done.
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reader, Abella +, writes (25 October 2012):
 Does it have to be at school? Surely there is some way you can meet her for a sit down in the park and look at a lovely view? Make it memorable?
Not a furtive rushed kiss on the lips in the corridor for anyone to walk past and see.
Is there something that can be done about your schedules one weekend in the future, to make it a little more memorable and in a beautiful setting?
BUT if it has to be at school don't go for the full passion on the lips kiss. Because if people walk past and tease you both it will ruin the mood.
Trust me the following works when you are surrounded by too much and you don't want a kiss to be as long and noticable to the crowd: as you are about to say goodbye to her, for instance if you are seated eating lunch together, just stand up as it is about time to leave, lean across and kiss her smack in the middle of her forehead.
This was something I experienced once.
No warning, just a surprise as they were about to leave. It was a first kiss and I never never forgot how delicious it made me feel at the time.
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