A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:One of my housemates is going out with a guy and their relationship is rocky to say the least. The guy is a douche bag but he makes it his business to try and rise me when he comes over but he never succeeds. we get a great laugh out of the witty comebacks and and banter.But he doesnt have that with his girlfriend. Their relationship has to be dramatic and they are never happy. If he goes messing with me she goes off in a strop. Earlier on she said how he purposely tries to annoy me, but he cant. She's never happy and always has to have someone around her. My other housemate, who is single, and who doesnt like him either and know they aren't great together but we cant say anything. I dont know is there weird messages being sent out but i dont know what to do about being around them anymore. can some lend insight? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Auntie Audrey  +, writes (16 October 2012):
 I don't think their relationship is going to last the distance They are both insecure pains. He's so inadequate he tries to start discord. She's so insecure she sees a threat to her at every corner.Act completely Bored with him. Don't give him and her ammunition. They are both itching for a fight. You are prolonging their unsatisfactory relationship by engaging him.Starve the two of them of any fuel with which to start a fire. Leave her to her own devices more often so that she has to lean on him. He'll get sick of it and she'll get sick of him.
|
