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writes:0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ended up having sex. that was my first time but not his, he has had some others partners in the past. the next day we got caught by my mom and im currently grounded for life. that means no phones, no friends, basically no life... im not even suppose to be on this thing. but im losing my mind and i need help. i really love my bf so much. he says that im the last one he ever wants to be with and hes the only one i ever want to be with. but now i cant even talk to him anymore or see him. my whole family pretty much hates him. but i still love him and im pretty sure he still loves me too. but i dont know how long itll take my parents to get other this... so my question is should try to wait and work it out with him or should we just end the relationship now? someone please help me... i have no idea what to do.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your thoughts you guys... me and my bf are good so far, i guess were gonna try to work it out. if it works out then its meant to be, if not then i guess ill have to move on... but thanks again :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 September 2011):
 Yeah smoke signals and snail mail are about all you are left with. As long as you live under your parent's roof and are eating their food, drinking their water, etc...you live by their rules. If your boyfriend is worth a grain of salt he'll wait until you are released out into the world again. Stay strong, we've all been grounded before and survived.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 September 2011):
 I hope your parents realize that it takes two to tango, he didn't drag you down a sexual path kicking and screaming - it was as much your decision as it was his. They're just shocked is all.
I suggest you kick it old school and keep your relationship going by writing letters to each other (yeah, through the mail). Don't end the relationship!! While your parents are just looking out for you and doing the thing they see best - they also don't control who you love - so don't end a perfectly good relationship because that's what your parents want. You should only end a relationship if you want to (or if it is dangerous).
Good luck, sweet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): Don't let your family ruin your relationship. If you had sex , oh well. Your 17. not 13. Goodluck (:
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reader, prettygirl212 +, writes (26 September 2011):
I feel that since he was your first, and both of you didn't break up because he, or you cheated on each other , that you should continue seeing each other. Dont let go of a good relationship just because your family doesn't allow it. Its Your life, not theirs. And your old enough to make your own decisions. Good luck!!
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