Do you think he's using me?

A female age 30-35, *oyoa writes:

I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just wants to get physical and seems disappointed when we're not doing anythin, eg he wants his hands down my jeans in public n down my top, and even when we're out shoppin he wants to go to the changin rooms n have some 'alone' time in there, which we have then gone and done, and I have let him do quite a bit in there! i've asked him outright if he just wants me for the physical stuff, and i've told him that if that's all he wants then i could be anyone really, but he's denied tht and said he loves my personality too otherwise he wudnt be talkin to me every night on the phone and that he liked my personality before we went on our first date so liked me then. So do you think he's usin me?

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