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writes:I'm 18 and this guy is 20. Let's call him John. So, I've known him for about 7 months now and we talk every single day.. There's a few days where we don't talk but overall, were always conversing.I think that's cause we both have BlackBerries and its so easy to talk on BlackBerry Messenger so our conversations just keep on flowing.Anyways, he's a really nice guy. Extremely sweet and kind. I've never actually met a guy like that before in my life. He's open to new things, he's already met 3 of my friends including my best friend (who's a guy) and my best friend said he's great and they bonded really well.Now me and John are only friends, don't get me wrong. But there's some days where I think I like him.See the first time we met up was in the beginning of June and we went to go watch a film and on that day I thought it would've been awkward but it seemed like I had known him for years.After that day I had exams so I didn't really go out but then last week I went to central with my friend and I bumped into him in Central London with 3 of his cousins and we were talking for a good 30minutes until he had to go which wasn't by choice, but because his cousins wanted to move onto doing other things. And then yesterday me and my 2 friends volunteered to do this Orange Rockcorps project where you work for 4 hours and get a concert ticket at the end and when I asked him if he wanted to join us he was up for it.. So me, my 2 friends and him were in a group together and they got on with him well.Now, when I bumped into him in Central London there were butterflies as I saw him but then they faded a lil while later as I got more comfortable.Yesterday during the community project, there were 3 people who made comments saying "Aww look at her and John flirting" "Are they a couple?" "They seem so cute together"Even my own bestfriend said he would be delighted if me and john got together lol.Even when we're talking he's very straightforward. I know he loves my hair lol, cause he's always complimenting it. And he tells me when I look pretty, whether it be in person or when I change my picture on BBM.Tbh I don't even know if he likes me, I don't think he does cause he's a very friendly person.But I'm confused. I've been hurt in the past and since then I have stopped myself from liking guys. I know it seems weird but I haven't liked anyone in over a year because I've somehow, subconsciously stopped myself.Its quite hard to explain but I don't know if I like him. I was all choked up on the day I saw him in the city, yesterday I wasn't as nervous because I'm able to be my complete self around him.. I don't hold back.Right now, I just need someone to make any comments about what they think?Thank you.
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reader, misspurple +, writes (7 July 2011):
It seems like he really likes you but im not sure in what way. If people are saying you both are flirting then it sounds like you both like eachother in the same kind of way. Just do what comes naturally and see what happens... You could go the next level like touch his hand and see what he does to see if he likes you then you could look him in the eyes and something may happen :)
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (7 July 2011):
It sounds like you like him a lot but I think is best to have a background check because you want to know is he really into you and his past history of his life with other women.
Overall, follow your heart is the most important part.
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