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writes:As many replies needed!new boyfriend, only pecked, not sure how to get off with him, going to his house soon , never met a bf's parents before really really nervous. and ever since ive got a bf my dads been acting really protective and that and i really dont like it but i cant talk to him he's not one of those you can just talk to. Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (8 August 2011):
 communication is the key to solving most problems though. you need to at least TRY. is your mum still on the scene? if so get her to help you talk to him. i can understand his concerns. he still thinks you are his little girl and he does not want you to be hurt, used, made pregnant. but he HAS to realise you are now an adult. legally you could leave home if you really wanted to and then he would not know what you were doing.
live your life but do him a favour by being safe, respecting his home and the house rules and do not let your boyfriend control the relationship and the speed of it. you want to have a grown up relationship? then you have a responsibility to conduct your self like a grown up and be sensible.
when your dad sees how mature you can be this will ease his worries a lot and hence will make your life easier! let your dad get to know your boyfriend and hopefully if he gets to like him he will trust you both.
you will probably only really realise how your dad feels right now when you have kids of your own :)
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