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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:When I first met my boyfriend he used to comment about how attractive a film star was etc in detail and it used to get to get to me as he went on a bit. He wasnt very experienced in relationships and his sister told me to be blunt with him. Things have improved but about once a month if he sees a woman scantily dressed when we are out he will draw attention to her and make a comment about how she looks ridiculous. Sometimes I think he makes the comment as an excuse to look at her for longer so he gets to study her in a very short skirt or low cut top. I just get this feeling. I never make comments about fit guys wearing 'too tight' jeans etc and I know he wouldnt like it so when he does it we are back to square one with me sulking and him telling me he was only making a comment and that he is not looking at her in a sexual way he just cant believe how women can leave the house wearing so little. Things are much better in our relationship I just wish he would keep his comments to himself. How can I get round this.... Any suggestions? He is not a flirt and now he says I am just trying to be too controlling and he feels he cant look or comment on anyone anymore?
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reader, VelvetUnderground +, writes (10 August 2011):
You have very fair reasons to says not look at these woman but to but asking him not to look at woman it is being very controlling and i'm afraid will only make him angry. remeber he chose you, if a really fit guy toppless came past you might want a quick look but that doesn't you want to be with them.
Just ignore him doing it, it doesn't mean anything or if you really can't do it to him measion a guys too tight jeans, he'll see how you feel and possibly stop !
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): I am 25 not 13-15!!!
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