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writes: I been out with this guy loads of times over the last month and I really like him. But on our last one he seemed a bit off and like he didn't want to be there. We haven't spoken in about a week but I was busy anyway so thought nothing of it. I got a text today off him saying "Its been fantastic meeting you and I have had a great time with you but we want different things, you are a beatiful person inside and out and when you find someone they will be truly lucky". He hasn't spoken since but I still really like him and have had fantastic times with him. I don't know what's brought this on it was like one moment he was more than willing meeting up and speaking to me then next thing it seems like he doesn't want to know me. Why is he being like this and what can I do now ? Should I leave it and move on or try and get him back ?
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 I agree with Rescuer. This guy has lost interest for whatever reason and there's nothing much you can do about that. It's not your fault, it's just that he doesn't feel it.
If I was in your position I'd like to talk to him although he's made it clear he doesn't want that since he sent you a text. Put yourself in his shoes. If you sent a guy a text telling him what this guy has told you, do you think there'd be a chance of him gettting you back? No? Didn't think so.
I've experienced this in the past and the best thing to do would be to let it go. When I was younger a guy did this to me after 2 months of dating. I tried to get him back by asking for answers, asking to meet up and so on. It went nowhere and I made a fool of myself.
Like Rescuer said, you need to move on and accept that it wasn't meant to be.
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reader, GoodDog  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 Well, it does look like it was his way of saying goodbye. The fact that he says you both want different things and when you find someone...etc show that he's saying it's over.
Add to the fact that he was a bit off with you during your last meeting and is now silent, I would say that he has interests elsewhere.
You could always get in touch with him to find out what's up, but be prepared for the worse.
Sorry about this and I hope it works out for you.
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