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female
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30-35,
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writes: I hang out with a small group of friends(names changed of course.) Mike, Tony, Chris, and my cousin Sara. Well, Tony and I have been talking about going out and he's considering it, but the other day Mike, who is a year and a half younger than me told me that he likes me, I only really see him as a friend though, he and I talk a lot, and have a lot in common, but I don't really see him that way. He knows about Tony and I, but told me that he likes me anyway, when he did he kept beating himself up and telling me that he's not good enough for me, not my type, not good looking, and that he really wants someone to love. I made the mistake of telling him that if things don't work out with Tony that I would go out with him. With Tony, the only thing keeping us from going out, is that he said when he and I are alone he always has to start the conversation and that I am too shy around him. I'm actually not shy I just can't think of anything to say when I am around him, I can't come up with anything interesting to say at all.So my questions are: What should I do about Mike, and what should I bring up in conversation when I'm with Tony?
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