Dating an ex of a friend..is it too weird?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so basically i have this friend who used to go out with my high school best friend around fours years ago. He has basically kiss the group of female friends and slept with one and for the past year he has been coming over (as friends in the beginning) and then recently things have been getting more intimate leading to having sex the past few times hes been over. So i started to feel really bad, and got sceptic about our friends finding out, as we hang with the same group, so...i called up my friend(old best friend) and told her what had happened, she's been in a new relationship for around two years and assured me she weren't bothered and that she was happily involved with her present boyfriend. Trouble is i think i may be developing feelings for him, the past few days hes been stuck on my mind, we get along really well and do like each other even to the stage of when hes over we like a secret couple, but he'll talk about other girls and he'll flirt with anyone, including my two supposed best friends both of which he kissed, one of them a few days after being at mine(at the beginning) my other best friend is telling me to let go before any drama is caused with the group(theyre closer to him than me therefore would take his side over anything) but i just can't let go, i really enjoy the time we spend together, i really don't know what to do. :(

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