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writes:my boyfriend of three years blurted out after being asked a week ago "I've been asked to go to Amsterdam for three days" i asked why he has only just told me this and he replied he didnt know how i would act. He has not had a job for ages and can never hold a job down. He hasnt got a passport and says his friend will get him one if he can get his spending money. We have never been on holiday although i have asked him for years if we can go on holiday as a family member has a house abroad. But we never have. It does bother me as he never got a job to get a passport to come abroad with me but he says has to get a job now if he wants to go amsterdam. I mentioned this and he says well needed to get a job anyway we will have to go away later on. I feel annoyed am i in the wrong? X
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 He doesnt need a passport to go to amsterdam if he lives in england. It's European Union.
and yes i will agree he's useless. No job and now he wants a vacation without you...wheee....are you sure you're with the right guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): i'd tell him to book a holiday with you before going on holiday with his mates.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (4 May 2010):
Tell him not to bother to come back and find someone that you rely on!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 May 2010):
Well hun I'm sorry but you know he's useless, you know he can't even get a job.... why are you surprised that he's letting you down?
He won't manage to get the spending money together most likely and will let down his mates.
If you choose to go out with a man who acts like a child then you can't get upset when he's childish.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): why cant he hold a job down? i would say that going on holiday is the least of your worries. if you are with someone who is incapable of keeping employment how are you going to build a future together?
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