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writes: I broke up with my ex since Janurary and we have sort of talked during Valentines day, and very rare after that. I've been talking to this girl who really caught my attention and i have been basically kising her ass left and right and last time we talked she just saw me as a best friend. I have told her that i liked her a lot and that i would want to go out with her but she tells me she doesn't like me like that. I already got over her not liking me until yesterday. She called me and even though she didn't have anyone else to talk to about it and she knew it would hurt me she told me that she likes my friend. I was hurt at first and just let it go, but i felt bad for her cause she was asking me if i knew anything about him liking her. Since i have been nothing but honest to her i told her the truth about what he thought about her even though it was not my position to say anything since i think she should ask him herself. I told her that he thinks she's annoying and just likes her as a friend. I felt really bad for her b/c she did like but she really didn't want anything with him since she has two children and she's not looking for anything. I had also told her that i didn't want anything before because i didn't want her to be a rebound or anything like that so i stopped talking to her like that. well since yesterday i feel really sad and depressed because i feel like i am missing my ex, and possibly because this new girl i am talking to likes my friend and not me. I just feel like there is nobody out there for me and as much as i say i want to be single deep down i don't want to be. I feel like i am losing my mind over this and don't know what to do. Any advice would help please, and sorry for the story if it sounds random i am in a hurry..
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reader, priya20  +, writes (2 June 2010):
hey don't be disheartened. u'll find the right gal at the right time. to take ur mind off y don't you indulge urself in recreational activities. spend more time with ur family and friends. all will be fine soon.
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reader, Nic390  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 Hey man there's someone out there for everyone. I'm in a way like you. I can't find the right girl so I just keep searching going through girl after girl trying to find the one I can connect to. Some like me and I don't like them and the opposite. My advise is just be friends with everyone and try to connect. Don't give up.
Good luck. I hope I was helpful.
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