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Dating 5 years and he never has invited me to his house to meet his roomies!

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Question - (23 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2010)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. A year ago he moved into a house with 3 girls and 1 guy. He never once asked me what I thought about this arrangment. A year later it still bothers me and we fight about it at least once every 2 weeks.

My biggest problem is that he has never invited me over to his house. I have been there for parties etc but never just me except for one time when everyone was away. Im having trouble dealing with it because either way I look like Im just being jealous when really its the disregard for my feelings and lack of putting me first thats the problem. Please give any advice Im dying inside about it x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

Ask him about it. 3 girls in the same house. Either they're slobs and he doesn't want you to know them, or they're hot and he doesn't want you to know them.

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A female reader, marie jane renshaw United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

marie jane renshaw agony auntsometimes a guy just likes you tohimself and maybe his roomies are low life people and doesnt want you to be associated with them, in a way it sounds like hes protecting you from them, just give him a break you never know he might take you 1 day

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A female reader, ashana21 Canada +, writes (23 February 2010):

okay, lets be logical, he's living with 3 girls he doesn't want u to meet...u should just talk to him and ask him why u haven't met them yet, and if that doesn't work it theres prob a reason why he doesn't want u too me them

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A female reader, TheXxHelloKitty United States +, writes (23 February 2010):

TheXxHelloKitty agony auntMaybe his roomies are slobs and he doesnt want you to be around them because he loves you !

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