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writes:I have trouble relating to a lot of girls......so I am 20 Years old and to put it bluntly most girls 18-20 aren't exactly the brightest ones around my parts. I have gone through my "partying" phaze and all of that and yea of course I still party every now and again but I can't find a girl that is laid back at this age.My question is am I being too picky, should I compromise it and just start going out with girls or should I stick to my guns? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 The laid back girls are probably staying home and reading, wondering where they could find you. Girls 18-20 are the way they are to fit in. They are not smarter or dumber than the last generation. Just don't go out with girls with substance abuse. If they are comfortable with you they wouldn't have to put on an image to please you.
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reader, Nandos17  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 I agree with the comments you've received already. You've said that you're 20 which I believe shows you're attitude is a lot maturer than most other people you're age. Despite not seeing this, there are a lot of girls that appeal to your kind of attitude.
There's no point forcing yourself onto girls just because you want to be with someone. Though obviously everyone needs love and affection, I'd advise that you stay true to yourself and eventually you'll find someone better suited. There's plenty of intelligent, ambitious and independent women out there - you're not going to remain alone and unhappy forever.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 You don't have to compromise, only go out with people if you feel that initial spark, as if you could get on quite well with them.
Love in general is picky so if you don't feel strongly about someone, don't feel like you should.
Being picky in that sense can be good because it means you'll only stay with someone who is perfect for you.
Just keep an open enough mind, ask girls that you meet out if they seem nice and then see where things go.
good luck
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reader, marie jane renshaw +, writes (23 February 2010):
 i dont think you are being to picky. you just know yourself when you find the right girl that you are comfortable with, there is no right or wrong way to do anything sexual maybe it was uncomfortable for you,i think you shud stick to your guns and you will know when you meet the right girfor you.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (23 February 2010):
 MAybe the ladies haven't quite gotten tired of the partying phase. Stick to your guns now and it becomes easier later. BEsides women are attracted to men who are consistent and principled...it is a quality not found in most 50 year olds let alone people in their 20's
I am 32 and wish I would have been alone rather than compromise just for a date. IT just all ended up being a big headache later.
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