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writes:hi. im 13 14 on valentines day and im a virgin. i was going to lose my virginity to my ex. i loved him so much and i still do but i just wasn't working very well. i could only see him about 3 times a week so we finished last march. we were going out for a year and three quarters. we have been calling and texting again lately. i dont know what to do. should i stop texting him and phoning? or should i get back with him ?i really love him. and people say you should wait for the one you love to lose your virginity to. but there is someone knew that i have been texting and he is really sweet but i cant build up my confidence to go and meet him. what should i do? please help !! xx
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reader, kelsey18 +, writes (14 February 2010):
 You really shouldnt be thinking about loosing your virginity,your 14! My little sister is 14 and if i found out she was sleeping with somebody i'd be very shocked and also a bit disgusted,shes still a child.
You should be at least 16 and loose it to somebody you truly love,i know that you think your in love at the moment- but seriously you don't know what love is yet! You can't do you havent lived enough yet. Just concentrate on being a teenager. And loose your virginity wen you feel ready, when it feels right, and when your in a commited relationship! I know i probably sound like your mum but believe me if you loose it now your goin to regret it in a few years time. Your 14, your still developing! its just wrong in my opinion..you make your own decisions and even though you will recieve advice on here at the end of the day your gona end up going with your own instincts.I just hope you make the right ones .. xx
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reader, texas_gal  +, writes (12 February 2010):
You are very young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Please wait to have sex until you are mature enough to handle the emotions that will accompany it. Wait until you are in a mature, healthy, committed relationship. The man you lose your virginity to should love you above all others. You can lose your virginity only once; be very wise in your choice or be sorry in the aftermath. Take care and God bless you.
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reader, Crazy high highschooler +, writes (12 February 2010):
Text him for a while see if he really cares about you the first time you go over just kiss second let him feel you up a little third if you really really trust him you could have sex with him but do remember you can't get back your virginity ohh and if you do make him wear a condom
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