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I've never been kissed and worry that I'll be bad at it

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Question - (11 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *3chelciemarie writes:

So this guy and I have been talking for a few months now, and hung out twice. We both like each other, but are not dating yet. The thing is I am 17 years old, and have NEVER been kissed!!! I kissed boys when I was like 5, but Ive never been truly kissed. I dont know if I should tell him this or not. I mean when we kiss, hes going to think Im a horrible kisser! So maybe I should just warn him? I dont know what to do!? Someone please tell me!!! Thank you

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A female reader, x3chelciemarie United States +, writes (13 February 2010):

x3chelciemarie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

x3chelciemarie agony auntThanks guys we kissed and it was incredible! I am in love with him and I cant wait to spend Valentine's day with him! Wish me luck!

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A female reader, Jak Tobin United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2010):

Jak Tobin agony auntDon't worry about telling him.

It could put him off. If he really likes you he might feel pressure to make your first kiss special.

I, too, am 17 and had my first kiss on my 17th birthday.

(best birthay present I could have had. ;D)

That was nearly 2 months ago and he still doesn't know that was my first kiss. I might tell him though.

If you do kiss, it will be fine.

Good luck to you!

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A male reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

Phsyciatrist-to-be agony auntSeriously, he won't mind, as long as your breath is fresh :L

Brush your teeth before you go out, and all will be well: promise! It'll come naturally to you, and is pretty easy to pick up, so I'm told :)

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (11 February 2010):

C. Grant agony auntKissing comes very naturally. If you're into it, you'll figure it out very quickly. Do not warn him. Just learn on the job like everyone else. Enjoy!

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A female reader, hellokittydiamond United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

Try to let him know you haven't kissed yet. That way, if it does turn out awkward, you have an excuse xD! But honostly, you will be fine. Just make sure your lips are soft and your breath is fresh. Practice between your fingers (like they're lips) as far as making out goes, that is a whole nother song and dance!

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A female reader, Lightningrod United States +, writes (11 February 2010):

I had my first kiss at 18. Tis easy to pick up ;) Don't try to hard, just relax, it will come naturally.

I am actually really proud of you for not being kissed at 15-16, most other 15 year-olds on this site are moving on to more age innappropriate things.

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