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I can't tell if this guy likes me or not. Is he just being friendly?

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Question - (9 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2008)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I cannot tell if this guy likes me or not. I am in a relationship (5 years) and he is a mutual friend. When we were all saying bye once he held my hand a little longer that I expected. He kept eye contact a little longer too. He's always playfully teasing me (it's not mean at all)and trying to get me to laugh.Is he just being friendly? I usually trust my intuition, but I am afraid that I am just seeing what I want to see.I am just recently out of nowhere feeling like I don't want to stay in the relationship I am in. These feelings really blindsided me and is causing me a great deal of stress.

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A female reader, Anonny United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2008):

I had the same problem with a guy who I felt really strongly about! - He knew I liked him as his friends could see me looking at him! - Anyway, he would respond by staring at me, smiling, touching my hand etc so I thought great and gave him my number! - To this day I'm still waiting for his call... - He did have a girlfriend so I never knew if that was the reason he didn't call!! - I'll never find out now!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

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He is very aware that I am not single.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

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Thank you both for the help~ I'll probably see him this weekend and I'll see what happens then.

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A male reader, donie Ethiopia +, writes (9 July 2008):

donie agony aunthEY,FOR ALL i KNOW the guy loves you.He's just waiting for you to respond.Show him that you have feelings for him without exposing yourself so much.Tell him that he's sweet and that you like him.He himself is probably suffering from the same problem and if you do what i told you he'll be brave enough to say I love you.

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