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I am not one of the popular girls, do I stand a chance with this guy?

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Question - (9 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2008)
A female Namibia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok so I know this guy 4 like a while now and the last couple of months I realized that I wana be more than just his friend. I've heard some rumors that he feels the same but I think his 2 shy to ask me out 'cause his friends will like thinks he is weird 'cause i'm not part of the popular girlz group. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

i think you have to go for it and ask him. unless you ask him you will never know. don't let the so called "popular girls" get in your way, they have nothing more than you. they just think they are the best and that they command everything. i known that type of people and believe me it's better to show them who you are...in which case you should go for that guy...good luck and never give up

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A female reader, little miss experianced United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2008):

hello,your still young ,ask him if he wants to do something at the weekend,just as friends then he may open up to you without his friends being there.as for not being popular its the best way..at least he knows you dont have a name for yourself and havent been out with half of his friends,popularity has its down falls,you havent any problem there..goodluck..

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A female reader, Hadouken! United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2008):

Hadouken! agony auntJust because you're not in the "popular girls group" doesn't make you any less of a person. Infact, girls that are usually categorised as this group are usually only there because of their bad attitudes towards others. Never let it get you down, you're a lot better than them.

Secondly, try taking to the guy. Send him some subtle signals, and if you get the right ones back, then what others think shouldn't matter in the slightest.

Good luck :)

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