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writes:I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?
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reader, cari  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 no bother ;)
any time xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much.
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reader, cari +, writes (10 April 2008):
i know exactly wat u goin thru it happens to me in very relationship i get into too.i mean at the beginin i wud be da one v excited nd da one dat likes more bt sumhow inda end dey always end up bin the needy ones,dey fall 4me nd i feel sori 4dem so i try to make it work but hun if ur 100% sure u dnt wanna be in a relationship nd u still hav the hots 4 ur ex...wat u doin wid ur current boyfriend?its only gna get worse the longer u stay with him the more attached to u he gets,u ar hurtin him anyway and if u wait too long ur gonna hurt him even more!just tell him its over and dats it,tell him ders not point in tryin to make it work coz ur not gonna make any effort coz u dont wanna b with him.tell him ur confused and u need sum time to tink tings over!dont put his hopes up tho coz more than likely uz ar not gonna get bak together!even tho it will hurt nd u will feel sorry for him jus tell him its over ders nutin he can do abot it..2make a relationship work it takes two people and u clearly dont wanna make it work!u ar jus wastin ur time!
hope it helps,if u need netin jus snd me a mail ;)
lots of love cari xx
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reader, cari +, writes (10 April 2008):
i know exactly wat u goin thru it happens to me in very relationship i get into too.i mean at the beginin i wud be da one v excited nd da one dat likes more bt sumhow inda end dey always end up bin the needy ones,dey fall 4me nd i feel sori 4dem so i try to make it work but hun if ur 100% sure u dnt wanna be in a relationship nd u still hav the hots 4 ur ex...wat u doin wid ur current boyfriend?its only gna get worse the longer u stay with him the more attached to u he gets,u ar hurtin him anyway and if u wait too long ur gonna hurt him even more!just tell him its over and dats it,tell him ders not point in tryin to make it work coz ur not gonna make any effort coz u dont wanna b with him.tell him ur confused and u need sum time to tink tings over!dont put his hopes up tho coz more than likely uz ar not gonna get bak together!even tho it will hurt nd u will feel sorry for him jus tell him its over ders nutin he can do abot it..2make a relationship work it takes two people and u clearly dont wanna make it work!u ar jus wastin ur time!
hope it helps,if u need netin jus snd me a mail ;)
lots of love cari xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni still need help though.. like my boyfriend now won't let me go... i have like this affect on people when i start going out with them they like fall in love with me and wont let go.. i don't know how to get it over with .. i try so hard but he's like we can get through this.. and i'm like i don't want a relationship right now... ugh it's so hard to do , and whenever i try i end up being mean and i hate being mean to people....also my ex keeps saying he misses me and stuff and i'm just a mess
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): I think you should give up on these relationships that make you sick and instead try just being friends and get yourself involved in school activities, bring up your grades so that maybe you can get help with college bills through grants for having good grades. As people age, the mature, and in college, you might find someone that is worth it.
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reader, Sk8er Boi's Luver  +, writes (8 April 2008):
Well If It Was Me I Go Back Out With My Ex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:~)
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reader, serenityjohnson +, writes (8 April 2008):
HI GIRL!!!....I totally understand what you are going through...I was with my ex for two years, and i do miss him alot of times, but he wasn't any good...lol...but anyway i am in that same position...i had wanted a relationship for a long time, but at our age you should be having fun just dating and making friends...because when you be patient, I PROMISE GOD WILL SEND YOU THE RIGHT ONE!!! If you want to talk about your situation, just message, because I understand what your going through...
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