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I was drunk and had unprotected sex, did he ejaculate....?

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Question - (8 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well me and my boyfriend went out to a night club and got hammered on saturday, thing is, he told me he wanted to go home and have sex and that's perfectly fine, it's a "normal" occurance. So we went back to mine very drunk and then we went to have sex. By this time the alcohol had kicked in even more, but we turned the light off and started having very passionate sex "accidently" unprotected.

We were at it for a good hour or so and then he started to become a little sensitive so he pulled out, and started making noise. Thing is, i don't know whether at that point he came or not, he'd usually tell me so i thought it was okay to keep going, so we did. As we kept going he started to become "less erect" as if after cumming. We don't know whether he did or not as he can't even remember having sex! Does anyone have any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

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I can't take the morning after pill it's too late and i'm not a suitable candidate to go on the contraceptive pill because i experience bad side affects. Seriously though, i'm a sensible person (usually) when it comes to this sort of thing. We were very very drunk and it was a silly mistake. We always use protection and i know that (thankfully) my boyfriend doesn't have any STDS (he lost his virginity to me...). Well thanks for everyones help and advice. If i am pregnant i will update you... just have to wait and see. I know that me and my partner (of 2 years) will be great parents no matter what the circumstances are. Cheers everyone xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

Always make sure that you have protected sex in future, but for now, take the morning after pill and sit back and wait. Be careful in future.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

Emilysanswers is totally correct. You can go and get the morning after pill from the chemist, you may still be in time. The chances are very high that he did, and like she say's unprotected sex is a no no. Unless you want a baby that is.

Good luck XX

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

It doesn't matter if he did or not, bits of sperm come out anyway.

Get to a doctor and get the morning after pill today - you may just be in time to take it.

Then book yourself in to get an std test.

Do you and him really enjoy getting that drunk that you don't know what you are doing? It's really dangerous as you could end up pregnant and ruining your life.

You should think about going on the pill or the patch so this doesn't happen again.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I would say take no chances and get the morning after pill and keep an eye out for early signes

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