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36-40,
*ellyfiveAB
writes:okay so this guy that I have liked since like 5th grade came over this past weekend, and we made out a lot. it was amazing. he left bite marks, and idk. it was crazy. I think I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first. I don't know what to do. geez, do you think he even really likes me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 April 2008):
If you have sex with him he will lose all respect for you.
He'll either stop calling, or lead you on to get more sex.
Next time you see him, make sure it's not at a house, go out, hang out, let him get to know you.
Don't do anything more than kissing with him until you know you are the only one in his head.
Make him wait and it will be worth it. If he doesn't seem interested in dating then drop him. He was just out to use you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Anyone who leaves bite marks either likes you or is a vampire (doesn't like you I guess).
Sex should be far from your mind, you don't just give it away, it should mean you both have a proven connection, that your a team, a partner, a couple, and that you look out for each other, protect each other and care for each other.
Guys love sex, and at your age, many guys prefer sex then commitment. Why? Because they have there independence from their parents and are wild to let loose and experience everything. Many guys realize that women are looking for love and may take advantage of it for there own selfish reasons. Guys also know that love is something to get you through the night, but commitment means a whole lot more, getting a job, being responsible for there actions.
Take it slow girl, and make sure your needs are being met. It's 50/50.
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