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He's seeing a girl who lives over in South Africa... But I don't want him to go because I like him!

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Question - (24 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ellylouise2007 writes:

i am in love with a guy who is in a realtionship with a girl in south africa! the thing is we have been seeing each other for the past few months and now he is going to see her in october and i dont want him to go! he says he has deep feelings for me but i am scared that i will lose him help!!!

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A female reader, kellylouise2007 United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

kellylouise2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well heres an update!

he leaves next week and all he says to me is i have feelings for ypu but i dont know wot to do till i see her!!

i love him and it hurts like hell

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (26 September 2007):

You mean he WON'T answer your questions. Good luck with the player. Let me know what he will say when he returns.

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A female reader, kellylouise2007 United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

kellylouise2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok heres an update

i tried talking to him but he said he cant answer my questions till he has been to she her cos his feelings for her have changed. and he keeps saying stuff that we should do when he gets back from south africa which is making me more confused

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A female reader, kellylouise2007 United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

kellylouise2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i am not really ok with him seeing her but i knew the stiuation when i got involved with him.

i dont want him to go but i also want him to go and look at her and hopefully realise what he has with me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

ok well fistly this guy is seeing both of you and your fine with that?

If you really doent want him to leave you have t tell him! if you doent hes gona go of and be with her, do you want that?

Good luck!

cheesy A. xox

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (24 September 2007):

If he doesn't have a bigger reason for going to South Africa than to see her, you should give him an ultimatum. If he goes, dump him.

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