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I am afraid she will run away if I come on too strong and try to see her more.To girls: what is she up to?

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Question - (11 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing a girl for about a month, we have had about 6-7 dates. Most have been initiated by me. We haven't kissed properly yet, it just seems a bit awkward although we both do like each other. She doesn't call me just for a chat, but has on the two occasions she asked me out.

Sometimes I send a text message and don't receive a reply until the next day. I would like a bit more back from her and am getting frustrated at the slow pace. But I am afraid she will run away if I come on too strong and try to see her more.

She is a similar age to myself.

To the girls out there! What is she up to?

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A female reader, spanna United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2007):

spanna agony auntShe wants you to chase her playing hard to get basically, try getting her to chase you so you dont feel as if you are putting all the effort in

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (12 September 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntIt might be that she's just not into you as much as you would like her to be. I would keep looking. Make yourself a little more scarce. You don't have to answer the phone every time she calls either.

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom + , writes (11 September 2007):

superbunny agony auntShe could be taking things slowly, has she been burned in the past perhaps and wants to suss you out before rushing into anything? Give her time - she might just be worth the wait. Hope things work out for the best - message me if you want to talk. :] x

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