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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 well don't hurry for ur marriage ur both young and you should get know each other getting married is not easy. there is a lot of problem to face. so if you r both inlove u have to wait for the time that u r destiny to be as one. u have to know each other weakneses and strenght so that any problem comes to ur life u will pass the test of ur life. find yourself if u r both really meant for each other. God Bless!!!
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reader, [email address blocked]  +, writes (25 September 2007):
![[email address blocked] agony aunt](/avatars/c5bffc88-1b07-456c-b2aa-14d9aa066b62.png) Marry a man you've never met?
Doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
People aren't always what they say they are.
Have you even talked to him on the phone?
I mean it is your choice.
All I'm saying is he may not be who you thought he was once you meet him.
You might be very dissapointed in who he really is.
&&you know what poeple say.. "You can't love a person till' you lived with them"
Maybe you should wait a while till you decided to get married. If you still fell the same way about this man after you all get to know each other very good and live with each other...
then I say go for it, but not untill you are 100% sure.
Good Luck!
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reader, esepalo1 +, writes (21 September 2007):
 Honestly your rushing this too fast the first mistake is do you know this guy really good Whats his favorite food favorite color his hobbies. You need to be friends before lovers. Its all good over the phone. What about marriage thats a big step more big being 16 him 18 thats to young to settle down at that age.What your parents say about this?Seems to me this is your first real relationship and he swept you off your feet becareful if it doesnt work its gonna hurt bad.Dont put to much in to it you might not get what you put in back.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Of course you shouldn't plan on marrying someone you haven't even met face to face, that's just nuts and especially nuts considering your age! What's the hurry? Are your parents cool with this?
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reader, carchick  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 u should marry him if u want to but he might want a baby wot u going to do if u qant to tlk some more contack me paige
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reader, kindone +, writes (13 September 2007):
 your to young to get married. date or a couple o years then i its going well get engaged. then marrage there is no rush your only 16 enjoy your younger years please im 29 with two kids when they say they want to marry you don't until you know or sure he's the right man or you i found out the hard way.
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reader, Pron Wife  +, writes (11 September 2007):
met him first.. get to know him.. and always.. go with what your heart is telling you.. it is smarter then use most times.. you know when you get that feeling in your stomach that just feels like something is right or wrong.. listen to it.. and always listen to your parents advise.. no matter what you think.. they always know what is best for you.. even if you dont... good luck and have fun...
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