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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months but I dont know whats happened to us. At first everything was fine and even up to the last month or so everything was great, but now I dont feel I trust him anymore and everything he does I seem to question in my mind. We were regularly seeing each other three times a week, but now he suggests we skip days out here and there for no apparent reason and I wonder if hes going off me. Also, hes starting doing things and then lying about them. For example he told me he was gay, then posted on a web site that he was bi-sexual, and then lied and said he didnt understand why it said that, which made me wonder why he lied to me about it and then that made me wonder could he be interested in somebody else, maybe a girl. Also he starts a new job officially in a few weeks, but is doing a few shifts before he starts properly. He told me he couldnt see me tuesday because he was working, but then I noticed he was online at 7pm and not in work and he told me he would make sure he was off today so he could see me and even text me this morning saying he wasnt working and arranged a time to meet. Then an hour later he was apparantly on standby to work but probably wouldnt work, then I got a text saying he was working! The fact that he was working didnt bother me so much, just the fact he promised he wouldnt so we could see each other and even texting me this morning saying hed got it off..which then makes me wonder is he really working or seeing somebody else!I dont know if maybe its just me being paranoid.Advice would be greatly received
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): well truthfully i dont know the whole situation but from waht your sayin i think he might be doing things that you wouldnt want him to do. and if he has to lie to you and you havent really given him a reason to lie to you about anything then he probably is doing something or another maybe you should tell him that you need time apart to reavaluate your relationship and see if this is what you both really want in life and still keep in touch but for a couple of weeks just be friends and if he comes back then hes yours and if not then you know that it wasnt meant to be. sometimes time apart can bring you closer. if hes not doin anything he shouldnt be doing.
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