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He says he loves me when he sees me, once a month. Then I don't hear from him! Is he being sincere?

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Question - (24 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I live in different towns. I see him once a month and when we see each other he always tells me that he loves me, but as soon as he leaves, I don't hear from him for weeks. He won't even return my smses. Do you think he means it when he says he loves me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2007):

it may not be that he doesn't love you. It may just be that he's the type of guy who prefers to be close to you to tell you how he feels. Some guys show their affections when they are near the girl and then when the girl is away they act like friends. You should talk to him about this and tell him that it's bothering you. It's best to know what's going on from his mouth instead of jumping to comclusions. Good luck! =)

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A female reader, mizc22 Nigeria +, writes (24 May 2007):

mizc22 agony auntwell i was in a relationship, he lived in another state i always had to be the one to go to him, if he was in love with me like he said then he would have proved it and ask me to move or at least been the man and came to me, i finally figured out he was full of games and i moved on

he loves you he will prove it

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (24 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntHe probably doesn't love you. I know that probably hurts to figure out, but it's got to be the truth. When a guy really loves a girl, he can't get enough of her, and would be making an out of town trip as much as possible. I think that you should move on to better things.

DV1

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