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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Decided to take a break from each other. Will he think it's a permanent thing by April?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Okay, firstly we've only been broken up a few hours so this question is more of a future problem solving one. We broke up because life schedules mean we never see each other. I literally have work 7 days a week and it clashes with his days off so ...

He says he has a flirty personality. Why is he giving me mixed signals? Could it be that he's scared to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Bear with me, this is a little long but he's giving mixed signals, Yesterday I had a date with the his guy, he picked me up, bought me coffee, we had a great time and he messaged me later that afternoon and we talked for an hour or so. Today,...

Is there any way to show people that first impressions of a person were wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - I recently started dating this girl, she's 20 and has a 4year old son. I ended up making a horrible first and second impression on her parents and I despartely need to redeem myself. Three weeks ago her parents were away when I got a call while I ...

I'm dating my married step uncle...help? I need advice on what to do, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Ok hi. Completely new at this. So to get right to the point. I'm dating my step uncle so (my mothers step mums son) so not. Definitely not blood related. He is married (not separated) tho like typical situations (is going to get a device an...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

Why is he, all of a sudden, interested in trying? Is sex, the first time, sometimes not successful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - My bf never used to be very much into having sex. We've been dating for over 3 yrs now. We are both college graduates. I'm working before going to med school. He's getting ready for law school. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was...

Does he just tolerate my shape due to the emotional connection? Is it wrong of me to want a man who loves all of me including my body shape?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I've been in a Relationship with a man for a year and a half and very happy . The time we have spent together has been wonderful . However recently he has had an issue with my weight and is treating me differently because of it. He seems extremely ...

The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart? All night having a good time with everyone, celebrating my ex's PhD which she achieved today. (ABC) ABC says things that stay with me "I missed my chance" - "This was ...

Is my girlfriend having sex with her personal trainer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

29 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys, I've been dating someone for 6 months now and generally it's been great. She has had a personal trainer (PT) for about 8 months. I was happy she had goals and wants to achieve them. I've started becoming concerned with the chat...

Is he cheating? He changed passwords without telling me and has been gone long hours!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - My husband works as a sales rep, he went out yesterday 6am got back in 920pm at night. He rang at 5 pm to ask what me and our son wanted for tea and said he wouldn't be home until 830pm. He thought i would be ok with him when he got home ...

Should I stick by Him? Despite the rumours about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Basically, there's a guy who I started recently seeing, what it is , is that we live in a small town so everyone knows each other business. Recently some rumours about him have come out such as he's been married a few times, controlling person a...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

No contact since our breakup. Could we date again? And what does kissing on the ear mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I had a boyfriend who kissed my ear the first time he kissed me. He was so concentrated on my right ear with his tongue participating mostly. We broke up after i found out he had a girlfriend somewhere else and was dating us both. Though he doe...

What can I do? I want to kiss him but I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I have this friend of mine and we've been close for some time. I went to see him some time last year and then we had our first kiss but i didnt want to go further cos i was dating at that time. Now am single again and i went to see, in the cour...

I am the parent to my teen brother - our parents are deceased. My brother is now 14. How do I raise and discuss talking about sex and all that to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - When i was 16 i held my baby brother in my arms and said to dad "god he's small, i'm not baby sitting". Well i think i changed his nappies more times then mum used to. Honestly a few years later when i went off to university my biggest joy coming h...

He wants our son to meet his new girlfriend. But he's imposing restrictions on our son's contact with my boyfriend. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, ive got a question what would you do in this situation. I was with my ex for five years, we had a child together. We got back together but in this time I didn't realise he had met someone else. He had moved away and would...

Do I tell my LDR what happened (a date and a kiss) during the period we were apart? Or not mention it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts. In a LDR of nearly a year Had some difficulties, especially of late, leading to us splitting up a few weeks back. I went on a couple of dates with an old friend, ended up kissing him. Spent the evening thinking of my man. Have told t...

My ex and I are back in touch. Will getting back with my ex work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, So, I split with my ex 7 years ago. We'd been together 6 years, not living together or anything but still spending a lot of time together whilst raising my son from a previous marriage as well as his two young sons. We spli...

Newly single, confused and need help! Does it sound like he has any interest in me outside of friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'm newly single and had been in a 10 year relationship since I was 18. I'm the first to admit that I'm not sure what I'm doing when it comes to men as I haven't dated my entire adult life. I recently met a man whilst on a business t...

I feel like my Bf is pulling away. He rarely instigates sex now. Am I being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. We've been together just over three years. Had our ups and downs. Just the past few weeks he doesn't really respond to texts and home calls. I mean we live together but he works until after 9 pm then ...

Why now? Was it an excuse? Will we resume? He has said we need to take a break to focus on our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I am in love with a man, who loves me. I have 3 kids and didn't want him to get involved too closely with them so I made sure we started slowly. He has 2 children as well but from different partners (A little niggle). My question is he has sai...

Why is this happening now? Two years later? Now I'm plagued with dreams that remind me of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - hi everyone. Some advice would be great. Cut a long story short my partner had an affair nearly two years ago now. We had been together for four years at the time, we both weren't happy and then I found out the reason why- he had had a six week a...

My Bf is going on a trip, with his sister, and without me. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and 5 months ago, him and I started planning a trip together. He would come down every weekend, we would look at various places to go, kept checking prices and overall, talked about it all the ...

Physician's assistant - any suggestions on how to handle the gruelling demands of this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hey all! I'm quite confused about making career choices and really need some advice. I want to become a Physician Assistant with a focus in Psychology. It took me some time to figure it out but that's where I'd like to go. I enjoy helping pe...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

Will I ever love a man again as much as I loved my first Bf?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I just broke up w/my 1st "real" boyfriend for whom I wanted to give the world to, I eventually found out he didn't care for me that much (he told me how much he loved, but I could feel in my gut he wasn't that in love), so knowing this would tear me ...

Two years into a LDR and now I've cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi there this is the first time I doing this. I'm in a difficult situation right now, and I really don't know what to do. I've been in a long distant relationship for almost 2 years and I feel like things are starting to become dull between me and ...

Should I arrive as soon as the party starts? Or should I arrive at a time that is normal for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and his friends are throwing a very nice party in a couple of weeks. My boyfriend and I will be arriving separately. He with his friends and me with mine. The party starts at 10. Should I be there as soon as it starts like a...

Is he telling the truth? Why is there a porn site on his phone history?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - Hi I wonder if you can help me with something. My boyfriend who I don't live with yet has a porn site showing on his phone history. I was looking up something yesterday on his phone not thinking for one moment that there would be anything like th...

Should I stop talking to her altogether and if I see her should I ask for any explanation re the bar incident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

25 October 2015 (M) - Never been in this situation before so I thought I'd ask for the insight of those perhaps more experienced than myself. So, I've been texting this girl I met met at a bar for about a month. So on the 15th we had drinks, made out, etc. So I hit ...

I do not want to be hurt again by my first love. Any words of wisdom, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - I have not long met up again with my first love. It was passionate buthe ended up really hurting me. We separated for over 20yrs and I have a grown family. We linked again a few months ago and the chemistry was still there. A few months later be...

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference an...

What are the chances of us getting closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - I have befriended a guy on Facebook who was at a show I was at a few weeks back and I managed to track him down. He has a lot of followers and regularly posts pictures and articles on Facebook - but we live at opposite ends of the country so it's ...

We bicker so much. Breaking up is proving hard to do. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. About 3 months ago we decided to move out together, however we moved to a different town, not too far from home, maybe about 2 hours. At first I was happy and enjoying the new change, but within ...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...

I caught my girlfriend lying twice about where she spent the night

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

20 October 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, so i am currently on a break with my gf because she lied to me twice in a row. However, with all this halloweens parties coming up that we had planned to go together it seems like added pressure to end the break faster. What ha...

Are my suspicions reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - Hi, Something is playing on my mind and I need some advice please. I'm too embarrassed to confide in any of my friends or family and I feel sick thinking about this. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and married for 3. I'...

My boyfriend's ex is sending me screenshots about him cheating! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. He has a kid with another girl. I love him so much and thought he was the one until tonight whenI got a bunch of screenshots of texts from his kid's mom about them hooking up. Apparently they ...

His ex had big boobs. I have tiny boobs. What chance is there that I can overcome my insecurities over this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I just don't know how to feel? My BF and I have an on an off again relationship when we first started I wasn't ready to settle down, yet even though at that time he deserved it. He was so sweet and 100% everything I wanted in a man but I was mu...

How can I feel like less of a failure towards my Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - I've been with my S/O for five months now and recently found out that this whole time I haven't made her cum. She took my virginity so I understand that I am not super experienced bUT I can't help to feel useless and like a failure. She says ...

Suddenly I've developed Erectile dysfunction. I feel I'm too young to have this happen. What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - AUNTS I NEED HELP I'm 22 years old. I shouldn't be suffering this right? I always get a very hard erection anytime anywhere Even very little things can make me hard.. i'm equally attracted to my beautiful girl friend But recently.. at lea...

It sounds to me as if he's attracted to me emotionally, but more attracted to his ex physically. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Why did he tell me he always looked for porn of women who looked like his ex yet when I asked him if he ever did that with me whilst we are apart ( LDR) he said he did only once . It makes me feel very unattractive to him when we can't be together ...

Why he does not stop taking to this girl who is married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have a child together. He recently turn 30 and it was very hard for him. I am a year younger than him. He recently met this girl who was not married when he met her she was engaged and was ...

First time sex, and not wishing to cause my Gf to get pregnant - lots of questions, if you can advise please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - Hi Cupids, I am a 22 year old and my girlfriend is 21 year old. I need some honest opinion about sex. I live in a more conservative country, Singapore, where we are told to have sex after marriage. Recently, my girlfriend and I have mo...

Checkout confusion - flirting or just friendly customer service?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - There's a cute cashier at the grocery store I frequent in my town. It has been a LONG time since I dated or even really flirted with anyone and I'm not sure how I'd signal my interest to someone I don't know that well or only in a "profess...

My parents are splitting up and I need help to work out the best options for celebrating Christmas and where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - Hi, sorry if this seems a really petty comment.. So last December (2014) when I was in my final year of University my parents told me they were selling the house. When I asked where they were moving to, they told me separate places. That was...

My ex is a nice guy. But I love another. How do I get my ex to honor my request to cut all ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years but things came crumbling down because he wanted to settle down and I loved him but I was not "in love" with him to marry him and I did not see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I ...

Is this sexual harassment? The actions of my new boss make me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have just started working in a new role and have found my boss's behaviour odd. He has asked me whether I am serious with boyfriend, if the relationship is flexible and can be moved around for work, how old my boyfriend is, if my boyfrien...

How do I walk away from my vicious boyfriend and stop myself from communicating with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I've asked a few questions on here lately because I'm in kind of a messed up relationship but today I know I have to walk away from it. Two years ago I was raped and my boyfriend was totally unsupportive. After he brought me home from the police ...

Is there any way around his refusal to sign these documents? It's stopping me from travelling with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - Is there any way around getting my daughter a passport when her father is refusing to sign for it or let me borrow any of the legal documents needed. He isn't apart of her life and never has been but when she was born, he came to the hospital...