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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he interested or just playing a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

My boyfriend told me to stop talking to this other guy but I don't know how to tell him that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i don't know what 2do.. i gt bk wiv my ex nearly 2years ago n we've been goin out eva since n its bin great..except b4 i gt wiv him there was this guy i gt wiv at my uni..we neva went out but things jus happend- we didnt get round 2 havin sex but ...

I pushed him too far and he's heartbroken. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. It was perfect, but not for long. We fought. It was generally his fault, him saying the wrong things, and I would get so hurt that I would break up with him, promising myself that I would lea...

My boyfriend has profiles on on-line dating sites. I don't know what to believe.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We've been together for 3 months and a half. We met online and I found some time ago the profiles he had before we met, and asked him to please take them off, since anyway he was not logging in them (I saw his last log ins and he had stopped) and he ...

HOw can I get over my abusive cheating boyfriend after half my life with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Please can someone tell me how long it takes to get over/fall out of love with someone? Does the pain ever heal? I met my partner when i was 14 (he was 20). By the time i was 15 we were living in a flat together and we were engaged. Slowly over the...

I still can't forget what he did at the beginning of our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i have got this really weird problem... i have a boyfriend(my classmate in coll) and we've been together for last 18 months.i feel he really loves me but when we initially started out he had this habit of complimenting other girls and usually ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

I'm in a loveless marriage. I'm miserable but I can't leave the kids. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Don't know what to think or do anymore. April 7th, 2000 my wife left without a word. No note, no indications whatsoever. Took our kids and moved in with her boss where she stayed for a year and a half. Then she came back... my mistake but I still ...

Confused about pornography. Is it cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's my first boyfriend and we plan to get married after college. I have never watched porn videos, but as a young girl (9-13 years old) I looked at a lot of pictures of naked women. ...

I am 2 months pregnant and I find out he has another girl! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend has another girl...... he told me this right after I told him I am 2 months pregnant. I really don't know what to do. We were "high school sweet hearts" and now that I found out im pregnant, with his baby makes ...

He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...

She hasn't given me any reason not to trust her but why doesn't she want a serious relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I met my current g/f at my very first job about 4-5 years ago. At the time, she was dating one of my friends for a little while. They broke up after a year and a half roughly, and I didn't really talk to her much afterwards. About 2 1/2 months ago, ...

Help! I think my boyfriend might cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hi. Im 13 nd im im a relationship. Im scared that my boyfriend is going to dump me because on bebo he is calling other girls fit and sexy. I love him to bits but my friend was txtin him asking him why he said that to then girls and he turned it ...

Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told ...

General question about breaking up/ getting back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - what do you guys think...Someone once told me that if you break up with someone even if you come back together...things are never the same...and the same problems are gonna surface....I know that even if my ex asked me back...now id be kinda afraid ...

How can I make him understand that I'm not easy? He even used the 'S' word...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is very unfair, I believe... Well, I'll start with some background. My boyfriend of two years has problems with my past. Especially because when I was single, on two ocassions, I made out with strangers at the bar after half an hour of havin...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

She says she still loves me but wants to be single. Is there someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Hi, ok so 6 weeks ago i went to see my girlfriend and were havin a cuddle and a little talk and i say to her " your my best friend" and she sortof says like thats sweet, and then she says that im her best friend but she says it in that way that you...

My fiance doesn't love me like she used to...she wants to see other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - My fiance told me she doesent love me like she did. She came over on sunday and texted me before she came over that we needed to talk. It bothered me so much, she was going to wait until after dinner, but i begged her and she said, I think we should ...

I'm depressed! Does he have a penchant for older women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I get very depressed sometimes and alot of the time I have no idea how to express what I'm feeling to my partner for fear of feeling insecure. I have a very loving relationship but at times we fight - and when we do it's absolutely awful. His last ...

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just ...

I trust him, it's his ex that I can't stand or trust. Should I feel worried? He never mentions her now or keeps contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and two months so far.He stays in northern cali and I stay in southern cali.We plan on him coming down when my family gets situated and theres a possibility of him moving in. It...

I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I...

I found texts on her phone that say 'hon' and 'babe' and that he tells her he'll dream about her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend who has a very good best friend. They do everything together and hang out all the time. I'm alright with this and I understand. She is a texter and is constantly texting a lot of people. Normally she lets me grab her phone ...

My husband had an affair and while we are hoping to salvage the marriage, I am so sad and angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - A year ago I found out that my husband had an affair. We have been trying to work on it, well he wants us to jsut move on, and I do too. But it is hard and I find my thoughts consumed with it and at times I find myself dialing her number and ...

I'm going to talk to him about my insecurities but I need your advice before I do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 134 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Well to start this me and my boyfriend have known eachother for about a year and a half before we started dating. We have been dating now for a few months now. We didn't have sex with eachother yet but we talk about it so we can get to know what...

How can I stop my boyfriend from assuming things and getting jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my boyfriend for a very long time now like almost 6 years since i was 12 . I love him a lot. I think if theres a word that means more than love thats how i feel for him its just unexplainable. The problem is he gets jealous and assumes to ...

A woman in my house while I am out of town?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - OK, heres the deal. I am out of town on a family emergency and suddenly my husband is getting picked up and brought home from work by a new "training" lady at his job. He is in the military. Now, my husband doesn't have his license so he has gotten ...

My fiance cheated on me with his ex because of lack of passion! Will this work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do, my fiancee who I have been with for 2 years has slept with his ex girlfriend, who he has a child with just days after our engagment party. Should I forgive him or move on? This girl is always causing trouble for us and has ...

He has secretly been looking at porn! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Here's my story. I have been with my bf for about 3years, living with him for about two. I'm 30 he's 25.The thing is I truly adore him, but we are not on the same level obviously due to age difference.I just don't feel he's ready for an adult ...

He wants "a bit of fun" now and then but I've never interacted with a bloke before and am worried it shows!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Ok, I am imterested in this guy at work who has told me he just wants a bit of fun now and again, the problem is I have never had any interaction with a bloke and I don't want him to know, how can I become more confident or come across more ...

What should I do about my cheating husband? We have 2 kids together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for nearly 9 years i have 2 children with him and we got married 2 weeks ago but in 2005 when i found i was expecting our first child he said we needed a break that was fine then this girl started to work with ...

She doesn't love me any more and she's doesn't even feel guilty about her behavior! How do I get revenge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - This is a bit of a lengthy story, but I think the context of it all is important. My girlfriend and I just broke up this last Sunday. We've been living together for over a year and a half and things were great until about 2 months ago... I ha...

My hubby's contacting his ex via mail, should I tell him or wait to see what happens?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I'm a married women married for 6 years and my husband just starting contacting his ex-girlfriend who lives out west. Have had some issues in the past with him emailing another female friend behind my back. I don't want him to know I'm checking ...

My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates go...

I am addicted to looking at perfect men, and can't stop fantasizing! It's upsetting my boyfriend, how do I stop?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have a problem.. I cant seem to stop checking out other men... whenever a handsome man enters my field of vision I am transfixed. I love the look of a strong toned torso, muscular arms, a nice butt, and a handsome face... I am like a drug addict ...

Did he use swapping as an excuse to get with that woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - My husband always insisted on threesomes with another male. I never liked it but since it was his passion, I thought a couple would be more appropriate. The idea was not to have swinging or swapping and I made it very clear to my husband and he ...

Am I being unreasonable about my boyfriend going out drinking without me when he has a DUI and has lost his driver's license?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Am I being too unreasonable with my live in partner? My boyfriend moved in with me the beginning of July, mostly for financial reasons because we both quit our jobs and wanted to work at a lucrative sales position that takes about three months to ...

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar with bad teeth. What do I do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have 2 major problems with my boyfriend of 7 years and need to vent. he is a LIAR. He lies about everything from stupid to serious. He'll tell me that a friend's video game system broke and i'll find out a few weeks later that it didn't and by ...

Is it just another one of his games or can I really trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Ok, Tonight this guy who I used to be best friends with apologised, for everything he did in the past. He did alot of hurtful things such as bullied me. Well he apologised and said he wanted to be friends, maybe something more one day. But I'm not ...

How can we work through my trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Hello, I am about to marry my fiancee in three weeks. However, I am feeling very confused. She and I have had issues, but we've worked through them. Trust issues. Last week we were having dinner with her family, and she told this story....

Am I acting as a Mom instead of as a partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Am I being too unreasonable with my live in partner? My boyfriend moved in with me the beginning of July, mostly for financial reasons because we both quit our jobs and wanted to work at a lucrative sales position that takes about three months to ...

I don't want my boyfriend to see my "insecure side"! How do I manage that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - So, my boyfrined is my Dad's best friends son. I have known him almost my whole life. He has never lived in the same state as me so we really didnt stay in touch til the older we got. He moved out here this past summer for an internship and we ...

Is my boyfriend up to something? He's acting sneaky.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is up to something, i don't know what, he disappears for no reason.. tells me he has to go the bank.. i don't know.. he gets defensive when i ask him where he's been. i've caught him lying about silly samll things.. plea...

I lied about my age for 3 years! Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hey every1...so I kinda have a problem you see I met this guy 3 years ago n I didn't think we would be messin around for this much time but he really likes me and cares the thing is when I met him I told him I was 15 when really im 14 He was 17 at ...

Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...

She still admits that I am the one for her, yet won't return to me, as I have betrayed her trust. Any hopes for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, the reason we broke up is becuase of general male ego. I started flirting with her cousin and we also talked about each others sex lives. No way did it go any further nor did i want it to. But she did, I ...

We constantly fight because I think he is too close to his sister-in-law!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my bf for 4 years we constantly fight because i think that he is very close with his sister-inlaw(his brothers wife)when i tell him not to be so close he say im jealous and starts fighting with me what shuld i do.....?...

I'm trying to be as realistic as possible by forgiving her, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - Ive been in a LDR for 3 years. We met when she was 17 and spent a year together in the same country. We loved each other to pieces and would do anything to stay together. She has to go to South America for school. 18 months into the relationship, ...