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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

We are going to hang out at his apartment, alone, and I'm as nervous as all get out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for two months now and thisnSunday we are suppose to hang out at his apartment, alone, while his roommates are at work. We've hung out before just not THIS alone. And well, clearly I'm nervous as all get out. He is ...

He left his first love for me. Now how do I learn to trust him, despite his past track record of distrust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have trust issues with my partner, Ted. we met when experiencing the worst times of our lives, and eventually fell in love. became best friends, study partners and each other's greatest comforter. the issue is, Ted had cheated on his former gi...

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t ...

Why is it that he can afford this rent and living expenses now, when he said he couldn't when we moved in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He has been living with me for over 2 but he has always called it my place. He claimed he couldn't afford to split the rent ($1200/month) so instead contributed $300 a month plus we take turns ...

Confused as to why he keeps threatening to go to prostitutes if I do something he doesn't like!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - im in relationship with w for more then five years. the only thing i promised him was that i will never leave him or for sure i will never betray him. but i will leave him if i get to know that he is with other girls. if any girls cross into our ...

Important interview tomorrow. Help! How do I create a good impression? What are the points to take into account when being interviewed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Tomorrow I have a very important career interview for Aviation, Hospitality, Travel and Tourism training college. Tomorrow is going to be my first interview and I have no idea how things go and how to make an impression. Please tell me all the dos ...

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which w...

Is this normal? Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. What can I do?

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29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me? We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess. I'm ...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear fr...

Why will he not tell me the truth? Is my husband gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 years. In the beginning of our relationship he put a porn video on to see if I'd be willing to watch it with him. Just a few seconds on there was a shemale on the screen. He quickly turned it off and said he didn'...

My boyfriend has asked if I'm ok if he goes to Amsterdam with 2 single friends. I already don't completely trust him! Should I tell him to stay behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - HI all, Im in a sticky situation with my boyfriend of 3 years, and really need some advice! last year for valentines we went away to Amsterdam on a city break for a couple of days and had such a good time we went again in december, my boyfriend has ...

Does every man in a relationship still look at other women? Would every man cheat with a gorgeous girl if they definately knew they would get away with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hi, sorry this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he treats me perfect and has never cheated on me or given me any reason not to trust him. But out of nowhere I've started to drive myself (and him) insane by questioning him ...

Boyfriend cheated once, now he has a second chance, will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up for about a month, due to the fact I had caught him cheating and chatting up other girls. It all started when we were about a month in, and he was accused of kissing a girl at a party, w...

Should I take my nephew's advice and contact this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - 5 weeks ago my car was vandalised and a policeman came to my house to take a statement. This was a Wednesday. We started chatting and realised that we had lots and lots in common. I am 53 and he is 49, I am divorced and he has been separated f...

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nast...

'that was nice, good to see you looking good' How do I interpret these remarks by my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across; We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really...

My ex guy friends are not responding on phone. Do they feel threatened that they don't have control over my life now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally ...

I want him to end the friendship yet he won't. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have a male friend who is currently going through a divorce. We were friends for several years, however, he tends to be a bit self absorbed and while I have listened to his problems for the past several years, he has not been exactly atte...

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing ...

He didn't want a relationship, so why has he contacted me after 2 months of no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I had a relationship with a man for 5 years. in the beginning we had sex, but after 6 months it became just friends as he didn't want a relationship with me. For the next 4.5 years I struggled with being just his friend as I loved him deeply. ...

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one ...

He calls me immature for questioning his relationship with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for five years and have a three year old twins. His ex girlfriend, who is also his other child mother is a serious problem in our relationship. He cheated on me with her multiple ...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle...

Could she still have feelings for me? Or has she moved on? Or is that she does not hold grudges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I saw my ex on Thursday night and it was strange because things ended very badly with us, I was an idiot and was reckless the way I did it. I know I acted very insensitively after too so I didn't help the situation. So of course I expected her to w...

I liked him. Do you think he liked me or was just trying to recruit me as a volunteer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I met this guy in a cafe this morning. He asked me if I was one of the volunteers. I said no, and he introduced himself and shook my hand and started telling me about his work. Then he invited me to sit down with him to have my breakfas...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

Creepy leery guys ask for my number. Yet NEVER do any of the 'normal' guys, who I see looking, actually approach me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female, single and have never had a boyfriend before. This alone worries me a little since literally everyone I know has had/ is in a relationship. Without sounding conceited, etc. I would consider myself attractive. I not...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

What do you think? Is this slightly older guy at work just trying to be nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I just want to know if he's just trying to be friendly. There's this guy at work, he's a bit older than myself. I've noticed him around the office but never thought much of it. He sits a few rows in front now and everytime he goes back to his seat...

Truthful? Can I trust her? Is she going to screw me over again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost four years, we love each other and have been through alot together, divorced parents, long distance, the works. Last october we had an incident, she cheated on me (kissed a guy at the club) then proceede...

He's moved on and he's happy. What do I do? How do I stop missing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Over Facebook. We were "that" couple and everyone loved us. We got along on every level and always had such an amazing time together. The last couple weeks we had been fighting because ...

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general....

Why would he call me a Princess and then tell me that I like to get my own way and I sulk? Is that a compliment or is he flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Why would he say that to me? Is it a compliment? I was talking to this cute guy I like. I'm very quiet and shy around him and he's quiet Around me too. He said I'm very mysterious and a princess I said why does he calls me a princess he said I...

Is it wrong that I want to feel as if my efforts are appreciated ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm looking for some feedback\insight to my issues! I've always been 'the one' lending a helping hand,be it a friend,be it someone less fortunate.. I work for a charity and make donations..but I think 'when you do good you should never accept ...

What he said to me made me so sick to my stomach that I didn't sleep all night. What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years we had a perfect relationship but then he got addicted to drugs. I had to become more of a mom figure to him. Then a girl friend due to everything he was getting himself into. But through it all I stuck by h...

Why do I appear so imperfect to him? Do I give up on this relationship or what am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend (of now 4.5 years) was a bit stupid. After one year of the relationship, he kept saved pictures of his ex semi-naked and met up with her secretly behind my back (but did not physically cheat). Anyway, after I found out we had a big ro...

So many questions I never had an opportunity to ask my ex. Why can't I move on? Why can't I stop thinking of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Why, do I keep thinking of my ex? It's been almost a year, I don't think I am missing her. I never got my last words in, never got to tell her what what I needed to say, like why did you break up with me? I keep thinking what I want to say to h...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...

I love him. Is he a shy lover or a player? He's sent me mixed messages and is now avoiding me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - My best friend isn’t gay but I am. He was sending me mixed messages. He send me a text. We hadn’t hung out in like 6 months. I always liked him and came over to spend the night and I was climbing up my bunk bed and slipped. He caught me. I would’ve...

We didn't have sex but he use erection support pills! What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to think!!! My boyfriend and I finally decided to live together and he took all his things to my apartment. Today when he already went to work I put his things in shelves. He has a lot of supplements and pills, e...

I don't know if I want this relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3679 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half,and i broke up. We broke up about 3 days ago. We went through each others phone and he saw my fb messages.where guys would hit on me and flirt and i would go along.i would always end up blocking them or cutting ties ...

I want to move in with my BF but get the mortgage on the place myself. Is this right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend are moving in together soon and it might be possible for me to have a mortgage on a place. However I don't want to go into a mortgage with my boyfriend. It sounds cruel but even though i adore him I just dont fe...

Are these fishy goings-on, or am I paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi there, I found a message in my boyfriends phone, he was flirting with a girl, but she lives/ works in another country, but yearly at least they come together at a conference in the same place. There was a lot of prompting from her side, ...

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. ...

Is it time to leave? She issued me with an ultimatum: The bachelor party or her

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend(who I live with) and I have been at odds everyday for the last week. My friend has a wedding coming this weekend, and their bachelor party on Friday night. So she has made an effort to fight with me everyday. But to cut to the chase...

I have moved on. But some of my friends from the past have not. How do people handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi there, I am a women in my early 30's. For the past 3 years I have made significant positive change in my life in every way......career, education, health etc. The changes have been gradual and have involved moving away from my hometown to ...

Could my boyfriend have lied to me? He said he was a virgin when we met, but seemed to know so much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were to together for five years. When we first met we were both virgins but throughout are relationship it was always in the back of my head thinking about. What if he hadn't been a virgin? He said he was but he knew so much abou...