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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he warming to me and how can I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I met a cute guy in some of the fitness classes at the gym, and am starting to like him. He seems shy, so I sent him a fb friend request (2 mutual friends) in November and he accepted. I started trying to interact with him after that, but did no...

When my boyfriend and I talk on Facebook he wants me to pretend to be another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have developed this 'thing' where for some reason when we speak to each other on Facebook it's like he's talking to another girl. I know he likes to role play occasionally and that is fine or whatever ... but does him pretending ...

I think I could come to terms with my boyfriend cheating on me if only he would be honest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for a year now. Our relationship is perfect all but one thing. I think he cheated on me. Inside I know he did but he keeps denying it. Me and him went out one night to a rave and he had taken drugs, he disappeared an...

Husband's left for Pakistan. I'm in a terrible dilemma

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My husband has decided to return to Pakistan, I know he does miss his country. He knows I do not really want to go there as I am not a family person and he has a large family. He has basically told me that if I do not go with him then he will get...

I'm scared to touch him. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend and I have already had sex, but I'm still afraid to touch his penis. He gently pushes me to try doing it, but doesn't force me. He will tell me I can't hurt him and he doesn't expect me to know exactly how to do ...

I'm scared to trust him - please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me he's been having sex since 6th grade. We've had an off/on relationship because of friends and family but he says he wants to kiss me the next time he sees me. I've never kissed anyone and I'm also afraid he'll go too far. What ...

How can I deal with an over sensitive mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Key Information: 22 years old, currently live with my mother and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. My mother is always under the impression that my boyfriend has a personal issue with her. Whenever I have asked him if he dislikes my moth...

Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern i...

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class fe...

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it b...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

Are we through? I can't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have recently ended a relationship with a guy who I was with for 14 months. We had hit a hard patch and argued a lot over the last month or so, specifically over his army career which was hindering our relationship. I have been cheated on in th...

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some ...

Why? And how should I handle the fact that my brother deliberately ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My brother and I used to be very close but now for some reason he doesn't even speak to me. At school he always pretends he doesn't know me, for example, My Dad sent me a message that I needed to pass onto my brother, so at the end of the day I tr...

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off....

How do I survive this nightmare of bitchiness at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem with the people I work with and I'm thinking of leaving as it's getting to me a bit. I work in a small local business and there are only a few of us. We all have to put rotas in the system every day for gas and plumbing enginee...

Would it be vindictive to tell the wife that her husband is having an affair with my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - This may seem like I'm being vindictive so I'd like to explain a bit of history behind my query... My mother is a toxic woman- my sister and I were mentally and physically abused by her as children leading us both to suffer with anxiety issues. ...

He didn't contact me Christmas day. What can I say to him? Is my reaction reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Hello everyone I have been dating a wonderful man for 3 months. We were friends for 4 months prior to that. He is kind, attentive, loving, considerate, reliable, funny, generous, always keeps his promises, and generally a good man. We get on...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first ...

I regret taking my Bf back. I've fallen for one of my other friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year... And we've broken up quite a bit, but we ended up getting back together again. Today was one of those days, and he begged me to take him back. I agreed, which I really regret now. I no longer f...

What are my options? This guy is starting to scare me, but he's a relative of my coworker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - okay so earlier this semester I moved into an apartment with a friend who lives in the dorms with me and also her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend. all of us are really busy with school and work and all three of them are going to be gone until sc...

How do I end this 5 year relationship with the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Finally working up the nerve to end five years relationship. I'm 33, he is 39. I love him, but this cycle of feeling happy then miserable is wearing on me...a lot. Most recent event: he blew me off on Christmas. To help myself move forward wit...

Couples: How long is too long for separate vacations ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Question for the Happily married men : would you go away for 26 days to another country to visit your family if you're wife couldn't go? Would you book the trip without consulting her about the length of time? After I raised an issue with month...

How do I learn to fancy her again? I love her, I do, but I have stopped fancying her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I adore my girlfriend, we have been together two years and have had an extremely rocky relationship. She's lied numerous times, we have broken up but always ended up back together. We argue, like all couples at some point but my biggest problem ...

Is my boyfriend's brother attracted to me? What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I really don't want to sound arrogant or full of myself but I think that my boyfriend's brother may be attracted with me and need an outsider view of the situation to tell me if I am looking too much into things. I also fear that I may now be attra...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

I think she's a thief but what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Any advice will be appreciated please. Two weeks ago my colleague came round my house to pick me up for a course we both had to attend. She wasn't due to pick me up until 8am, however was at mine 30 minutes earlier (she said she arrived early as...

This married man has me confused. Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem concerning a married man. I feel as though I have been 'played' but I am not sure how it happened. My head is all over the place. I am normally quite sensible and I'm definitely not interested in men who are with someone, married ...

Am I being too hard on my friend? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Happy holidays everyone! Hope all of you are doing well and enjoying this time of year. I recently found myself in a place where I am angry at one of my dear friends, “H”. Now there have always have been little things that irritate me abou...

Am I falling out of love? Four years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3035 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, first of all thank you for taking the time to give me advice! Right so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. Bit of background of our relationship.. we met and I was actually with someone else but nothing happened we ...

How can I talk to my Dad about masturbation? I am trying to give up masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

28 December 2015 (M) - I am 15 and have been masturbating for maybe around a year and I ve really been trying to give it up. I feel really guilty and stressed and I wanna tell my dad but I feel like it would really change how he sees me, since we re pretty much bros I ...

I am 15 and I love writing lyrics for songs. How do I chart a path to get my lyrics noticed, find the right professional contacts and a path to succeed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am writing, to seek some help on my future career in writing. So, I absolutely, and truly, love to write. I write poems, and stories, and songs. I also love to sing, a lot. I have been singing, pretty much since I was a toddler,...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by ...

Worth pursuing? Or should I let this online flirtation go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I have been taking to a decent guy online for the last 2 weeks. We seem to hit it off really well and within days were talking on the phone every day for hours on end. However I was the first person he started talking to as he had only subscrib...

Is she messing with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Hi, I have been in a long term relationship for years. A few months ago, a girl started working the same place as me. She's also in a relationship. We get on like best friends, we've told each other almost everything, some things we were too uns...

She's into me one week then ignores me the next week. Why so many mood swings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My partner exhibits some peculiar behavior that I find rather frustrating and hard to figure out. We have a great time together for the most part, and I really value her companionship and our overall relationship. At the same time, she goes off...

How can I get my husband to realize that his mother is taking advantage of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married 6 and a half years (together 8) and our marriage has been wonderful. He's absolutely my best friend and soul mate! However, his mother has been a real issue.... He was not raised by his mother, nor has he...

How do I tell if he's being honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy like about 2 months ago and he seemed interested in me and I was too, but when he would tell me to let him know to hang out he always had things to do so I would get upset. I've asked him if he's single and he said he doesn't have a ...

Would I stand out if I go solo for a meal and maybe to see a band or a comedy performance on New Year's Eve?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - For the last five years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thou...

Is paying for sex the best option, when a guy is 25 year old virgin, and has a porn addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I have a porn addiction. I watch it everyday, multiple times a day, and of course masturbate like crazy. It becomes a compulsive need to get home from work, or any social gathering and start looking up ...

He's nice and he's flirty. But is he really just a player ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I've been speaking to this guy for a while on snapchat, he used to live nearby but has moved away (apparently only for a year but I am unsure). I never knew him when he lived here but we went to the same school. I just never seen him as he was a ...