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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty ...

Am I right to doubt his fidelity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - We've been dating for two years. Mostly it's been great. Lately however I'm feeling hurt because he got drunk and told my best friend and me that he wanted to "play" with us both? My friends chalk it up to his drinking but now I feel like I'm not ...

Can we get back to normal after swinging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Do you think there’s any hope of a relationship going back to normal after swinging? My husband and I have tried it - yes we had a lot of fun - but the lifestyle isn’t for me. When I tell him I want to stop we fight because he doesn’t want to stop. ...

I think my uncle is hitting on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - I think my uncle is attracted to me. First of all, excuse my English please :( Unfortunately, it’s not my first language. So, the problem is that my uncle’s brother (well, probably my other “uncle”, huh?) is acting strange. Well, you may t...

I have these gut feelings she's cheating so how do I figure out what I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - I'm a female in a relationship with another female. I have trust issues due to previous infidelities in past relationships. I know that it's unfair for me to question her when she's done nothing wrong, but, honest to god, I can't help it. I feel ...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

Caught him out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - Looking for honest comments from anyone especially if you’ve been through this. Until 6 weeks ago,All was really nice in my 3year relationship with my partner. We have lived together for 2 years. He moved over from his town to my after graduati...

New in the office but I'm unsure of co-workers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Should I trust this colleague? I just started at a firm downtown and in my previous role I was very talkative I would open up a lot to co-workers etc (I can’t read people sometimes) in this new job I started I noticed one of my colleagues is trying ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

What can I do to show I'm working not cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - My husband thinks I'm cheating. Why? Because I spend a lot of time on my phone. I'm too lazy to use my clunky slow PC to write my novel, so I'm doing the whole thing on the Notes app. I'm also unemployed (6 months, still job hunting), so I stay up ...

Please counsel me on this man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am 46 years old. I met a man from the US online and over two years we have been talking on the phone and communicating via email. We got along very well and he told me he would visit in January of the second year of our meeting. When the ...

He believes lies people say about me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months now , a few weeks in to our relationship we were having a nice day out when some girl accused me of being a prostitute and since then people have said horrible stuff about me when my bf has been with me and despite ...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2303 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

Caught her in a lie. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - Two years ago I was ghost. I treated her really well. She told me before that she runs when a man starts falling for her, so I never contact an ex, that's how I, get my closure, but a friend told me about a site, where you can look up people’s, ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2339 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past ...

How can I learn my value?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I ...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2339 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

Should I risk involvement when he might travel abroad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - I am dating a guy, we have been conversing for a good few weeks now. He seems very interested and we get on really well. He recently told me however that he is planning on going abroad to live with his friend next year. When he said this he s...

My sister's boyfriend kissed me and now we've been making out behind her back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - My sisters boyfriend kissed me what should I do?? I’m 15 years old and my sisters boyfriend is 19 they’ve been dating for about a year I’ve known him as long as she has known him. This all started about 3 months ago when he started grabbing...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Mixed up by his communication

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - I was dating this guy a while back. It's kind of a long story and I guess I just want some opinions on his actions or reasons why. I had moved to the city for some short term work. We had met at a bar but nothing really went further than tha...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

New Relationship Reflection, Age Gap and Polyamory

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I have been recently seeing a man that is 10 years older than me, I am 21, he is 31. Saw him at the bar and asked for his number, had a date, was pretty nervous but ended well with us making out and finding out we were really physically compatible. ...

Is online cheating okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - OK! I found out that my boyfriend of 8 years has been going on adult dating sites looking for women to hook up he'd say he hopes they can come over see I'd stay at my daughters sometimes and baby sit. is cheating OK if there's no actual contact ...

I've always been a people pleaser ... how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - I can’t stop worrying about what people will think of me - I have always been a people pleaser and have followed the “rules of life” to the T. I got two degreees and got a corporate jobs followe the path. Lately I have fallen in a financial hardship ...

I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is ...

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ...

Is my husband's panty fetish out of control?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is my husband’s panty fetish out of control? I just discovered that my husband has been sneaking my underwear as well as my 18yo daughters underwear. I don’t know exactly what he does with them I can only imagine. He swears it’s not about who wear...

My husband is flat out lying to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is it ok to snoop if i am being lied to? My husband keeps telling me that his 'penis is broken'. We havent had sex in two months or so. Hes massively stressed out. The thing is that in the last two weeks i have given him two blowjobs and we have act...

How do I find a man who won't cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

4 November 2017 (F) - Thing is, I was cheated by two man before both I have child. Both men are the same age like 6 years older than me. First man, he made other woman pregnant that’s why I separated. Second man did not tell me he is married. Both man I did not get ...

Do you ever get trust back in a relationship and if it’s possible how on earth do you get it back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over four years now. We have had a rocky relationship, many hurdles along the way but overcome each and every one of them. I have trust issues, I don’t partially trust people and find it difficult to ope...

My boyfriend loves me, but can't trust me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

1 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over two months. Things were going good, until I lied to him. I told him how I was married to my ex but he was helping me with a certain issue. (I cannot disclose, my boyfriend knows). And he was okay with it. I ...