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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I married in haste, and now he has changed for the worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel kind of weird writing this but I have no one else to talk to and I seriously don't know what else to do. I am 20 years old and just got married Oct. 9th at a courthouse to the guy I was in AIT training all summer with (for the army.) H...

My friends all went to Malawi but I am home alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Ive been feeling so so down recently! I guess my self confidence was absolutly crushed when i was turned down from a school malawi project - a project were 25 people head to malawi and help renovate a school or building etc and basically make a huge ...

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after ...

He has a girlfriend but wants me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So I've liked this guy for a while but he's had a girlfriend as long as I've known him. I noticed he's been flirting with me somewhat since we first met but I assumed it was just his personality. Recently though, he's been asking me to kiss him and ...

We both have new lives but he wants to resurrect the old

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi im really confused here dont know what to do this guy was my first boyfriend as you know relationships has thier ups-downs.iwas 14 years when we started dating and he was 25yrs ,as i was young lot of things happens between us until we end up ...

My husbands wants to reverse his "op"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - the bloke iv been with for the past 8 years was forced into having a vasectomy from his ex of 10 years,it was a case of if he didnt have it done then she told him she would end the relationship,when he did have it done she still ended the the ...

I am angry at rapist's low sentence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hey people. I just got something that's kind of bothering me so I figured that I would post it on here. I just found out something and I am not entirely sure how to react. I have known my girlfriend for two years and I can honestly say that I have ...

How can I prove that I'm not cheating and that I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ive been with my bf for already 9 months and i kinda have been messing you like flirting around but i love my bf so much and he knows that so he just forgets about it well on one of our dates we were at the park havin a great time and a boy texts me ...

He wants to take me to the beach but is it to meet up with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi im 44 year old female ... i've been living with a guy for 3 years now..about a year ago i found text messages to and from a female coworker.he apparently was interested in..i confronted him about the text and although i was devastated i chose to ...

Was I wrong to go with my instincts and look in his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months and the other day for some reason, I looked at his text messages while he was in the shower, I found some messages from a girl who I think is an ex. She accused him of cheating on her, and she ...

I just can't trust my husband... help! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been married for 12 years now and been with my husband for 15 years. In the second year of our marriage he cheated and conceived a child with another woman. He is not physically seeing his child but talks to him every now and then. he lives in ...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

It's so painful that I love him and he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for just about a year, and we haven't approached the "love subject" well he hasn't. I love him and haven't said it, im 2 upset to because i no he won't say it back. This really hurts because obviously im in ...

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...

The sex is great but I want a REAL man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I can't help myself! My on-again-off-again boyfriend is smart, funny, and handsome. But he also smokes and drinks a LOT and rarely has time for me because he's a "writer". Every time I want to do something he has to stay home working on his ...

I told her I wasnt ready, and that she felt lust not love, will she talk to me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Welcome, This is my life, Im Dave 16 and 6 months old, Tash is 16 and 11 months old Im gonna write the situation, and Id be very thankful if you could give me the next steps I could follow. There is this girl called Tash, her and I are ...

My ex is blocking me on MSN and facebook and I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - this might take long so please bare with me my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text eachother and ...

Hubby went home to mother, but sometimes still sleeps with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hi My husband recently moved out and back to his mum's, things hadn't been that great for a while but i never expected this. He recently starting going out with a new bunch of friends ones whom i never ever met and this used to really annoy me...

I have set myself a pattern that I find I cant break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - ive had 2 relations both onli lasting 18 months!!! they get serious an they say i love u an they give me everything i want an i run 10 miles in the other direction!then wen i see them with a new girlfriend all happy i want them back?but i no ill b...

My older workmate is flirting with me, and other colleagues are asking questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have become friends with a man who is 10 years older than me. We work together and have gone out together several times as friends (meals, games, etc). For the last six months we have been play-flirting. I like him but didn't take anything ...

His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. ...

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great ...

My university exams start soon and I have left it too late to study

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i am doing mba from a well known university....i got the paid seat for 2 million dollars(due to tough competition) as my grades have always been horrible ..... I messed up in my high school and have never been even satisfactory in my academic...

How long should I wait, I have given him a week already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the ...

He wont tell me he loves me, but I know he does

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29 November 2009 (F) - my question is i am friends with this man who has been a friend for 30 plus years. we tried to date two times in the pass, but i always went the other way. now he and i has become really close this time and i am really into him. we have a sexual ...

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 ...

I feel my love is fading while my boyfriend is away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years, going to be moving in together in about 6months, which I'm excited about, but sometimes I get nervous about my relationship because my bf seems so certain that I am his future, he sees it ...

I want to be friends with my married lovers step son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i`m a widow of almost 10 months i have been seeing a married man for about 4 months we have kept a low profile as far as his family is concerned, (no small children)now he is telling me he loves me and i believe him, he also states his wife is ...

he doesn't trust me, if he cheats on me, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - If he cheated on me, how do I move on? Ok, this is my first relationship ever, and we have been together for 3 years, 3 months, exactly. And well, he has issues with my past because he knows a couple of guys I made out with (I was a virgin until I...

He keeps me apart from his family life, and wont say "I love you"

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29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year--but he has not yet said I love you nor has he ever invited me to any function or event involving his family (I have met his sisters through his mom because I work with her but have never been invited ...

Why do I think the grass might be greener on the other side of the fence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I have a loving girlfriend of many years. She goes out of her way to treat me great and always does nice things for me. But lately, I am extremely enticed by some of the other women I randomly interact with. What is wrong with me?...

She says one thing, he says another, who do I believe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 29 years old woman, divorced with 2 kids. I met this guy almost 3 years ago and after 2 years he confessed me that he was still seeing his exgirlfriend behind my back. He accepted he was wrong and promised to change everythi...

Am I just a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes I am recently divorced after 14 years of marriage. The last 2 years of my marriage were really hard and I clocked marriage then. I have a crush on my next door neighbor and it has been going on for about 1 year. Recently he has been ...

I was not the teacher's pet, I was the teacher's flirt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - A year or so ago, i had some problems with a teacher (lets call him Mr H). Essentially he behaved very innappropriately with me, touching and other worse things. This teacher was married and in his mid forties. There is one thing about it that co...

Why do girls lead guys on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Ive liked this girl for a few months now but only recently have i worked up the courage to ask her for her number, which she gave to me. We ended up txting each other all night and connected really well and our night ended with her coming over ...

So why did he do this? Why was he involved in these sex sites, and connecting to women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three and a half years now. My man was a very moody person, but I, being passive, could usually take it. Like every other couple, we had our ups and downs. A year ago as I went to use his computer, I saw that he ...

My boyfriend is so jealous of my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Please help... i really don't know what to do... I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a half now, and so far, we've never had any major problem. But there's one problem i can't solve. I have a best friend (a guy, by the way)and my bf is ...

How do we mend a mangled heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - How many times does a heart get mangled before you give up on love? It seems that so many trying events in life, made to knock us down, only make us seem stronger. But what if they just make us more fragile for the next time? What happens when the ...

My friends say he is a player, who should I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - im only 13 but i am going out with a boy and we have been going out for a few days but everyone is telling me that he is a player and that he will break my heart but that isnt the side i see, he is really sweet and does so much for me and always ...

How can I tell if his feelings are geniune?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - ok ... question i like this guy... and i know he likes me back last year i gave him a really hard time cuz i didnt like him. but this year my feelings grew for him i told him and even tho we liked each other he became mean. i jus alwayd figured he ...

I had an affair with a womanizer then gave his wife my email and password to show her the proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hello, This is just a follow up of what I have written earlier. I got involved with a 68 yrs old man thru internet online and he is married. He is a womanizer, but still I loved him and even learned to love his imperfections. Up front I told him...

I'm in love with my best friend despite her sexually messy past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I am 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. If people see us, they assume we are a couple, we are in contact every day and see each other as often as we can, maybe several times a week, for food, shopping, or just to ...

He has one set of rules for me and another for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I am in a troubled relationship. I am 27 years old and my boyfirend of 3 years is 42. Everything was great in the beginning of our relationship, but now as time goes on he is getting more jealous, i cannot talk to men i can only hang out with 2 ...

Am I overreacting about his texts to other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I want to trust my man but for whatever reason I decided to check his cell phone. I found that he is still texting other females. He sais there is nothing going on with them but I am not so sure of that. Why would he need to text other females to ...

Used for sex - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 19yrs old and i met this guy on campus. at first i jus liked him as a friend untill we started going out often,then kissing and touching alot. i developed feelings for him. he gave me signs that he liked me back and told me that i could be is ...

I drank, I kissed too many, now they call me a slag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - im so confused, im a girl of 16, i went out with a friend last night and had a bit too much to drink, i ended up kissing my ex's best friend and one of his friends,infront of each other, then my ex's friend kissed my best friend straight after. Then ...

Going through his phone because I don't trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with a man that I won't to marry but I fill as though I am not enough for him I've told him how I feel about him conversating with other women it really make me fill uncomfortable once I got into a relationship with ...

How can I get some 'me' time in this smothering relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend is very needy and possessive. We've been dating for 6 months now, and we're both 15. Over the last few months, it's been getting worse and worse. She LITERALLY expects me to hang out with her every second of my spare time, ...

His "joke" was NOT funny!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - My husband jokingly said, "I love this woman... Jennifer", she is always so satisfied with my work... I totally lost it. I felt it was an insult. And he said, oh no it was just a joke, I was just making a funny joke.. Do you think is this really f...

He's in a gang, but a sweet guy. Is he using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I met *John during the summer in the middle of July through the internet. We have already met in person and after about 2 and a half months of knowing each other, we began dating, which lasted for about 2 weeks. The reason we broke up is because ...