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Archived questions from: July, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I pushed him away because I wanted him closer to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - So 3 weeks ago I kind of pushed my boyfriend away and told him I don't wanna be with him but what I was really trying to do is making him understand my mental illness, suffering from GAD and BPD, I tried to tell him maybe through my ery wrong way of ...

I can't learn to trust men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - Why can I not trust men? How can I go about this? I have been going to therapy for a while and my psychiatrist point blank said and it seem like a light bulb hit- "you haven't trusted anyone since josh" - josh was my verbally abusive bf of five ...

Are my fears reasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

30 July 2017 (F) - My bf, who I will call DH and I go to watch his nephew play VB (volleyball) on the varsity high school team. The team had sort of a team mother who went to all the games and drove kids to away games. I’ll call her the TM. The TM had come up to DH ...

I think my girlfriend might be in touch with her ex but I am afraid to bring it up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

27 July 2017 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times, so i really have a difficult time sometimes when situations don't feel right or i get the feeling shes ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

My boyfriend and I both have anger issues but should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

25 July 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and we were going very strong, and madly in love. Only recently has our relationship deteriorated. First off I have trust issues, have done for many years after awful relationships before. At the star...

I forgave him after his betrayal, but how can I warm this love up again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - I am 27, yet still so naive in love. I will try to make this as short as possible. Both times when being betrayed, I never had a doubt because he was still treating me as good as we used to be. 6 months ago, my bf had feelings for a gir...

Should I be worried by his behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - Hello. I need your help to figure out if you think my boyfriend cheated. Let me begin by saying that he is in touch with me several times a day. But yesterday he behaved unlike the norm. We talked before bed on Saturday night. All was fine. I ...

My boyfriend has been texting a past hook up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a few months now and we are crazy about each other. We have been exclusive for a while, but I saw the other day that he has been texting with a girl he has hooked up with before. They have been friends for 10 years, ...

Is this guy lying about his wifey situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - I met a guy online and started seeing him. Before I started seeing him he took down his profile as he said he found it demoralising. He told me he was separated, had been for 9 yrs. said he hadn't divorced because he wife had gotten a boyfrie...

Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...

He asked and asked me so many times for pictures of me. Finally I sent one. I feel so scared that I did this. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - So I'm 13. One day my best guy friend asked for pictures of me in a sports bra. Well I told him no and he asked and asked and kept asking. I've took pictures like that before (Not sexual) making sure not to show anything. Well It was 2:30 am and ...

Was he just being an ex, and was he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - Hi thanks for reading guys I need advice. On wed me and my ex spend the night together, we went for a meal a few drinks and was best night we ever had, he was so loving told me he can't imagine his life without me. Was incredible met some of his ...

How do I address these problems? Has anyone out there dated a partner with children, while having no children themselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2464 days ago

22 July 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I met a divorced woman with 2 beautiful kids over a year ago, and we first started meeting only for sex, but somehow, we have developed a very strong friendship and I think we are both very fond and loving of each other. Ou...

Friend will not take any ownership for problems in our friendship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - Good morning This is such a neat site and I get answers from around the world which is cool. My issue involves a ten year old friendship. I have had bumps in the road with this friendship in the past but we have worked it out but as of late the c...

Married woman flirts with me on and off. Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

22 July 2017 (M) - So there's this female that I noticed when I started taking the train to work a little over a year ago. At the very beginning I noticed that she kept looking my way, even if I haven't looked at her I noticed through peripherals her glance. Anyway ...

He flirts with me when his girlfriend isn't around.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

19 July 2017 (F) - I'm not sure if my male friend is flirting with me or just being friendly. Its starting to make me uncomfortable. So in a nut shell, I've known and been friends with him for over a year now, I'm 18 and he's 23. When we first met I must admit I had...

Does my LDR GF have borderline disorder?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

19 July 2017 (M) - I posted a similar question a while back but I need some more help now more than ever. Long story short, my parents and i all went camping for three days and I told my gf that it may be hard to talk since I'll be in the middle of the woods/at...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2469 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

I can't believe that after all his drama, HE dumped me! I need closure. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - Hey guys! Just need a little advice at the moment! Hope you can help! I met a guy at my job that I started dating.. before anyone says "Don't date people you work with".. I usually don't, and I only made an acception because he works in anot...

Now it's hard to trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - A little while ago I left a guy who tried to control me. After bad dating experiences I had walls up, so I was able to pick up on things that didn't feel right. The attention was flattering at 1st, but then got emotionally draining, he didn't tr...

I think he's been swapping explicit pics of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - I need some advice and don't normally do this but I've been with this guy for nearly 2 years and had a gut feeling he's been up to somthing odd! I logged into his emails today and found messages between him and a random person on cragslist asking ...

Hes been exchanging suggestive messages with an ex ... should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - A few months ago, my boyfriend and I argued over a woman that he had been making sexual comments with on facebook. He said that he was joking, but I didn't think it was funny. She said she had a soft spot for him, then he mentioned a "hard spot" , ...

How do I deal with creepy older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I live in a small rich town where there are a LOT of people in their 50s and 60s, I'm here because it's cheaper and nicer than the nearby city. I'm a female student in my 20s. I get hit on regularly by older guys (I'm talking the ones in the 50s ...

I don't understand why she wont just delete her profile from online dating sites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

6 July 2017 (M) - It's hard to know where to start, and I know this will turn into a long post so I appreciate anyone willing to read through and offer advice. I've been in a long-term-relationship for about six years, we're the same age. When things are good,...

Online dating. He's not just chatting to me. Should I start chatting to others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - Online dating. I've had both good and bad experiences doing this . I've been chatting with a guy for a couple of week and we are meeting in a few days for our first date . He's told me the lines how he's hoping i'm the one and what he hopes will h...

Nothing ever goes right in our relationship. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for over 2 years and it just seems nothing EVER goes right in our relationship. There is no such thing as peaceful, pleasant times for us. It has never been like that, unfortunately. When we got together, instea...

Is it wrong of my mother to suggest these things because I'm not married and I don't have children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - My mother tells me that because I am single and without kids I don't understand her nor my siblings who are married. There's been many times when according to her I'm at fault. I just feel that is wrong for her to tell me this. If I'm not mar...

I work while my husband stays home, he goes on vacation but I cant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - A little over a year ago my husband left hos job because it was too stressful and demanding and became a househusband. I own our house, so no mortgage and extra espenses, and although our lifestyle has changed a bit- meaning that we try and save ...

He's asking about people I've slept within the past 2 years!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I've recently got into a relationship with a guy i've been seeing on and off for a long time. We've only been together a couple of months officially but he's began to ask about people i've slept with over the past two years. He's quite insecure as ...

Is he cheating with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Is my partner cheating??????????? He says he needs 2 clear his head is he cheating with his ex and only talking 2 his daughter his smashed his phone up so no one can get hold off him but I think his stopping at his ex house cos he knows were not ...

I'm unhappy at home and crushing on a co worker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

3 July 2017 (F) - Hi not sure if anyone will be able to help but hoping someone can give some advice or even discuss similar experiences? So I'm 38 have a boyfriend of 7 years and 2 young children (5 and 6) life is quiet and settled never any arguments, however ...

I am involved with a married woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - So first off let’s just get the I’m an idiot, I’m a horrible person, I’m naïve, I need to grow up, and all that out of the way. I am an idiot for this and I didn’t want to let my emotions get involved but I let my guard down and now I’m lost. Ju...

She strung me along to cancel three times ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I was in a short film with an actress and we hit it off really well, great chemistry. There was a kissing scene but it wasn't awkward at all. She even suggested "practice kissing" during rehearsal. However, ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...

How can I stop living inside my head ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I have been told that I have an obsessive personality by my doctor- I suffer from OCD but mostly obsessive thoughts- my worries don't go away - I worry about saying the wrong things in meetings when I'm silent all the way to thinking "what if I ...

My LDR girlfriend gets obsessive when I am with my family or friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - So long story short ive been in this relationship and it started off perfectly fine until she got obsessively clingy. Everytime i go out with my parents/friends/family and I'm too busy to respond (I should include this is a long distance ...