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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he seeing someone behind my back? Why would he lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i think my boyfriend is seeing someone behind my back the other night he said he was at home but i knew he was not because his car was not there.when questioned he said it was but i am not blind.he said he loves me more than anything so why lie to ...

People tell me that I am beautiful, smart, have a shining personality, but guys never want to date me because of my weight? Why don't guys date big girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old. I have had one serious relationship and a few boyfriends. I think it has been because I am overweight. I never thought it mattered. I love myself and i have more confidence than most people. People tell me that I am beautiful, ...

He likes motorcycles and the biker girls who hang out with bikers. I am afraid I might lose him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I have been with the guy I love since the first night I ever hung out with him. We started dating that night and 4 months later, we got engaged. Now, we are 6 months into the relationship. It happened fast, i know, but oh well. He bought one of them ...

I used to be very aggresive and made many mistakes to my ex. Now I want her back, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid....I'm dyin'...i still love my ex-girlfriend...but unfortunately she doesn't love me anymore...i made a lot of mistakes to her,i used to be very agressive..but now without her...i want to be with her...i miss her..What should i do?...

Why can't he accept my heart belongs to him and stop being suspicious, when he loves me, maybe just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - im inlove with my man and someday hopefully i intend getting him to make me his wife,i want to love and be with him forever,but 1 snag he constantly accuses me of hiding things in my email yet i allow him full access to look at anything,it's so ...

My gf said her boss would ride her to the airport for a business trip, before leaving she said she'd quit her job because I seemed...jealous. I was not, although having discovered flirtacious texts from him. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need some advice about my girlfriend. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes them. For the most part the texts I've ...

13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...

My partner wants to go to university, but I'm afraid of the distance this implies; feel miserable verytime it's brought up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - my partner wants to goto university, and i hate the thought of them leaving me. I know a relationship couldn't work between us with a 50mile distance if they go. I don't know what to do or say. 'Cos its their life and they can do what they want, but ...

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...

Will she ever leave her husband for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she...

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good....

Is he just scared of getting hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i have been talking to a guy for two years now and we got on from the start,i really like him and have done since i first started talking to him.he says we have a special friendship as we have been intimate over the phone and i have told him i ...

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...

She cheated on me, and I was going to propose! How do I get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?....

I'm troubled by something my girlfriend did in the past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Me and my gf have been in our relationship for almost three years... i'm aware that in almost every relationship the past comes up. The thing is, my past doesn't bug her as much as hers does me... We both had boyfriends in our pasts but she told me ...

Been with the guy I love before, but he's dumped me for stupid reasons in the past... 3rd time lucky?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hello, i really want someone to help me plz this is the situation i think i still love this guy i have been out with him twice already but they didn` t last long as he keeps dumping me for stupid reasons e.g. once he dumped me because he had a ...

Does my girlfriends boss fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Help, I need more advice. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes ...

Do men run to arms of a stranger for the sexual "escape" when they are under stress, instead of being with their partners? Is my bf going to cheat and blame it on the "stress" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - When my b/f is stressed out about work, he tends to not want sex. Okay, I can understand that, I know stress can affect a person's sex drive sometimes, but recently during one of those stressful phases, my b/f e-mailed a female friend and made a r...

We're on break but he says we're not postponing the holidays together, already reserved. I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ok I have a gourgeous boyfriend who I thought adored me. We've been arguing over little and big things for a while- not least having to postpone our 2 week holiday to Thialand due to a washed passport. I'm 27, he's 29 and has a 10 year old son. We...

After we fooled around, he became too busy to do anything! He said it's not me. But is he bullsh*tting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Alright, here we go. Well, I met this guy a couple months ago...we met through a mutual friend. Anyways, we really hit it off, had a couple dates, fooled around a little bit (a LITTLE bit), and talked all the time. Now, things have changed. Every ti...

I think my g/f might be cheating with her BOSS!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Help I need some advice. I know its a long post but please take the time to read it you'll probably be suprised. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady ...

He's been giving out his number to others! What should I make of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Well I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Just spent the last month working out boundaries, like do we want open/closed relationship, etc. About 2 weeks ago we decided together that we would be able to have fun with others in clubs ...

Is my boyfriend of a year cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend of a year cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and I have known him for about a year and a half, when we were first dating he cheated on me. He told me right away and we have gotten over that...

I said all sorts of silly lies when we were first dating, should I fess up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I love my partner and we are due to get married soon. Problem is that I lied to him during in our first year together. I told him I had gotten an audition for a film part (Naturally I didn’t get it) that I have seen all these people in concer...

He keeps ogleing other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We love each other but he needs other female attention and it hurts my feelings. I understand that all people look at attractive people but he takes it over the edge. He stares at attractive women to ...

I am afraid my boyfriend will fall out of love with me while I am away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi Aunts, I am off to Europe for a few months soon and when I am away the plan is that my boyfreind is gonna find us a place to live and we will move in together. I am just worried that he will change his mind cause his not with me, and I know ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...

Am I wrong to ask her to cut all contact with her ex? Did we get together too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Hi, Im after a nuetrals point of view on my dilemma so i thought i would ask you.Ive been going out with a girl for about 4 months now shes 22 im 28 just before i got with her she was still in a 2 year relationship but going through breaking...

We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...

How can I seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - my gf just broke up with me the other day and said she needed some time along for a while, she says im not convincing when i tell her i trust her, so how can i seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?...

He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if ...

Should I let my son's father have contact with his child? I fear he'll mess with our baby's head like he's messed with mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hey, so.. my son is nearly 2months old, hes 1month 18 days, and all of a sudden the father has tryed to get in contact.. he put me through complete hell while i was pregnant with riley (my son) we are still very young, but his actions were really ...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we ...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

Am I cheap person or have misunderstood his actions? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Am i cheap person or have misunderstood his actions?dear aunts, here is my problem. Im with this boy for almost 5 months,we have fun and everything.Im not so materialistic girl, but cannot understand why he bought me a cheap present and not even ...

He called his ex twice behind my back - how can I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 1/2 months and i been having trouble trusting him because he called his ex-girlfriend twice behind my back and i found out about it what can i do to trust him again???...

I get physically nauseaous worrying about whether or not he's going to miss me or just be happy I'm out of town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Well I am not sure where to start. About a year and half ago, I met this great guy. He is about 5 and half years older, we have a lot in common, we moved in together about a year ago, have talked about marriage, not so much now. About 6 months ...

I feel less fun in comparison to his ex, I've never felt insecure like this before.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I can't stop checking up on my boyfriend's ex girlfriend. We have been together for 7 months, and he broke up with his ex girlfriend bout 10 months ago (he broke up with her). I've never felt insecure or obsessive like this before, I don't know ...

They never want a relationship, just sex; and when I eventually give in they still don't want a relationship. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Im a 20 yr old girl, struggling to gain a relationship. I dont have issues with finding men, i go on dates and meet men, they just never want a relationship, just sex. and when i do give in to them eventually they still dont want a relation...

I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...

Am I being paranoid, worrying about the old row we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool ...

My lack of trust brought back to him bad memories and we broke up. Anything I can do to convince him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Me and my bf ended last wednesday. Things happend a couple of weeks before, and he said that i had been accusing him and checking up on him, and these are the things his ex used to do and she really hurt him. He said he didnt want to get hurt...

I got drunk and told him I'd had multiple partners and affairs... but it wasn't even true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - If I can get a guys' view on this, I'd appreciate it. I have been with a man for about two years now, in secret (never married, but were both involved in long-term relationships). We have a very close relationship, but not without its hardship...

We've had rows about her ex's - part of it due to my insecurities, but am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I need help dealing with something my girlfriend did in her past. I've been seeing this girl for 6 months and when things are good - they're great. My only hang up is that she confessed to cheating on her last boyfriend with a previous Ex-boy...

She says the emails to another man aren't actually from her! Do you think she's cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Recently me and my girlfriend have been arguing alot, we've been together for a few years and have always gotten along just fine. I've always trusted her 100%, and we shared everything; Myspace, cell phone, car, email, everything. We had access to ...

We've been dating for 5 years, has he avoided to tell his parents because he's ashamed of me? We're from different cultures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am a white female who has been dating an asian guy for 5 years since I was 16, we met in college and I love him very much. However he still has not told his parents about me I always ask and he says he will tell them but he still hasnt, and im ...

I know I'm terrible at trusting men, but this time do I have a reason to be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I have a terrible time trusting men. Even when I meet a man that seems good on the surface, I'm always looking for the hidden strings. My current b/f has done a few things that were "shady" in my opinion -- he was flirting with a friend of mine ...

My boyfriend sent a seductive pic of himself to a woman on line. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend sent a seductive photo of himself to someone on a personals at Craigslist. It was a woman seeking male. and the subject was " Sunday Night Needs." When my boyfriend responded he asked if he could help with their needs... should I be ...

Am I wrong to be annoyed that hes taken her myspace address?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

23 September 2007 (F) - Hey guys, My boyfriend works at a race course and recently they had a kind of Bikefest things where there were motorbikes for sale. And what do you get with Motorbikes? Slutty Teenage Promoters! Ok well apparently they asked him if he wanted a...