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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My married lover doesn't want me to go on trips by myself. Why doesn't he trust me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

31 October 2018 (F) - My married lover travels with his wife up to 3-5 times a year. The longest he is away is a month at a time. It's very difficult for me, even though I've chosen to place myself in this role. I feel resentful and left behind. They are natural ...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

During a break I went to work on my flaws but he never took responsibility of his. Now hes forcing his way back into my life. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 2 years went on a 6 week break after many rows. This was mainly due to my insecurity issues, which caused many arguments leading to the break. During the break I wanted to make a huge change in my life and went to see ...

How can I make her my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - There is this girl I work with and I really, really like her. Her and I both started working together at the same time and she has been in 2 relationships that hadn't ended well. She knows I like her and care a lot about her, but she keeps saying ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I think my husband is deliberately making himself unnatractive to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - My husband never showers or brushes his teeth when he is home with me , even if it’s a whole week . We’ve been married less than two years. The last time we had sex was three months ago , he says he’s tired from working but watches porn ( ...

My lesbian partner seems too close to my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

22 October 2018 (F) - Hello mates :) I've been in a relationship with a lesbian. We're bestfriends and turns into lovers. 2 months of love :) But mates, I start to wonder why she's way too close with my girl bestfriends and heck they look so sweet :( I'm pretty jealous ...

I need emotional support which my husband can't give me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone.. its been months since my last post here. I had my 2 weeks old son now after long labor and he is perfect. Im the one who posted about trouble with my husband and mother in law. Things are not getting better. Im still living in my in ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

20 October 2018 (F) - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ev...

How do I move forward and stop letting his coworker get to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So my husband has a female coworker and their work relationship has made me uncomfortable. More so because of the actions of my husband. He has lied to me numerous times and all lies have been associated with her. While this was happening, I was ...

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit a...

He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just ...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

What do you make of my boyfriend's long-distance female friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - My bf has had a female friend for 5 years. At first I was uneasy about the whole thing but as I learned more about her and took my insecurities for working, I became cool with the whole thing. One evening when she messages, he said "oh she was aski...

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym a...

Is he flirting or am I reading too much into his actions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - I recently transferred into a different team at work and started working very closely with the guy who recommended me for the role. I REALLY like him as as a person and we get along great. Sometimes have suspicion that he 'likes' me, but then I t...

My partner wont make amends with my mother.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi there, My partner and I had an argument the other evening and it blew off on a tangent to him calling my mother poisonous, and he told me to tell my mother to "be less poisonous around him" I did as he asked, but tried to break it gen...

Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

8 October 2018 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl through one of my friends. She had just come out of a 6 year relationship which lead to her losing almost all of her friends. She moved to my city for work and this is how I met her. I had an instant attracti...

What will help me feel at ease about entering a bdsm relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - I am 25 and about to enter into my first bdsm relationship with a guy I met online. We’ve been talking for a while now and discussed everything we both want but I am a past rape victim and getting spanked scared me! He knows this but nothing he has ...

My partner is googling how to flirt sites.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi all Just seeking opinions as to whether there is a need for concern or just over reacting. Bit of back ground info. Been in a relationship for 10 years. In the earlier part there were bouts of cheating on his part. We worked through it but I ma...

I know he's had sex with others before being in a relationship with me but it bothers me that he lied about his "first" sexual experiments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

7 October 2018 (F) - I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. we are very open about our past relationships and both of us accepted everything about it and continued. so trust and respect was the major factor in our relation. we have a very ...

My wife's adult children are bums whose lifestyles I pay for.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

5 October 2018 (M) - Hi all, I have a problem. First off, I've been married for over 21 years. We largely get along -- mostly because I don't complain about much. During that time, I have raised my wife's 2 children from her previous marriage. They are cur...

I'm not comfortable seeing him if he is going to date other people.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

5 October 2018 (F) - I have been dating/talking to this guy for only 3 weeks. We have been in on a few dates and I have stayed at his house also , things seemed to be going well. So I found out he took another girl out on a date but he doesn’t know that I know , and I ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...