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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I didn't even ask him anything. He seems shy. What am I meant to conclude from the remark he made to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - I go to a local university and a shy guy in my class is friendly with me, gets a bit nervous , stares , seems jealous when another guy talks to me. One day while casually talking to me he said " I treat you with higher standards than anyone else her...

How do I get over my former friend's betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi, How do I get my lying, cheating friend out of my head?? I was conned and lied to by a girl I thought was a friend of mine just so she could take my ex (we were on a temporary break)! I totally trusted her but she ended up ruining my life, wi...

Giving it another chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a bad situation at the moment and have never felt so hurt before. I've never really trusted my partner 100% and I was correct for that as I found that he had the intention of sleeping with somebody behind my back which is extremel...

I think she might be cheating on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

30 November 2016 (M) - Hey i just like ask if im wrong in doing this. Me and my partner been together 13years. When we first met everything was great but now its so hard to just get a kiss or a cuddle from her for example. Last night she went to her pool game just lik...

What can I do? I don't want to lose my relationship with my niece so soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi I know this is advice about love but I am writing about how much I love my niece and I think it is unfair that my brother in-law's parents get to see her on Christmas and I don't get to see her during Christmas at all. I help take care of her a...

My girlfriend made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied. Where to now, with this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - So I found out my girlfriend had made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied straight to my face about it and after a little while she finally admitted she made it. When I asked her why she made it she told me she was bored an...

How do I deal with my controlling dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I feel like my dad is very controlling and it's uncomfortable for me being that I'm a 19 year old woman. He is someone who doesn't like people and has something negative to say about everything. He works from home so he is ALWAYS home ...

Met a guy on Tinder. Was he just after a hook-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - So I matched with a man on tinder Who was visiting my city for a week... I was surprised that I even went out with him bc I want a real relationship but he seemed really interesting. he actually asked me to coffee so wasn't really a hook up sitch...

Is my online boyfriend hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - i got this online boyfriend we never seen each other yet been in a relationship nearly 2months we always video call, phone call and chat. we exchange password before in instagram. 1st he trusted me his instagram and i get jealous to the girl he ...

I asked him to remove my pics, he said he did, but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Good day, So I've been friends with a guy for roughly a yr plus. He is cool. We talk relationships, future jobs etc. I like our friendship but he wants more and I could tell because he does these things like always tagging me in stuff, texting m...

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were...

My girlfriend said I was 'mushy'

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - I have been with a new girl for a few months. Tonight we were drinking a little bit and I told her how much I enjoyed being with her. She asked me if I was getting mushy and I told her that I was and that she needed to cope with it. I did tel...

I'm straight and not interested in my female friend, but I'd like to maintain our friendship. Can that still happen after she admitted romantic feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I used to have a female best friend, who fell in love with me. Trouble was, I'm straight and had a boyfriend. She got very jealous, and I spilt up with my boyfriend because I felt our friendship was nore important, which made it worse, because I ...

Truse issues, especially with older men. How can I find a healthy balance and deal effectively with this pressure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I'm starting to have trouble trusting men, especially older men. Being in a work environment where I am usually the only woman in the department, and a still semi-young one at that, I tend to get the attention from older colleagues. I'm sure mos...

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

Fiance issues. What should I do? What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - MODNOTE two issues concerning fiancé combined. . . . . . . My fiancé a couple of years ago, made some very bad decisions and cheating on me many times as well as lied, hid a 2nd phone to be able to chat with other women, and was sleeping wit...

Should I keep talking online to "her" if I have doubts about "her" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - I made friends chatting with a 'woman' online. Due to a bug, her e-mail address was revealed to me. (She doesn't know this.) The email address is a male's name. I'm just curious-- what do you think the chances are that this is a woman sharing an ...

She broke her virginity with my brother and friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - Well this happened Saturday during her 18th Birthday celebration, after I left for the night. anyways she had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother and lost her virginity as well. (they did it about four times that night), ...

Won't tell me how he feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Do actions speak louder than words? He my new guy in my life about 5 months is not one for being open about his feelings. I took a break from talking to him because I felt he didn't want to talk about us and our relationship. He said it takes a lot ...

My crush. He's 20, I'm 17. Should I wait 2-3 years for him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2701 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him...

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in ...

Why would he? Potential date seems too much in a hurry to meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

Why do men sexualize women this way?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Why are men so disgusting? I'm not trolling. From what I have seen of men, they are foul. They admit to looking at every woman as a sexual partner, imagining her naked... They think disgusting things. They use disgusting words when referrin...

How do people get over being bullied? I can't get over this bullying experience

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts. I am struggling to get over an experience which Is effecting my professional and personal life And I wanted to share with you. About a year ago I was working for what id call a "cowboy" firm. Bad accountancy practices, awful manageme...

Is there anything that can be suggested, on ways to best support my partner of five years, over her work and health issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - My partner of 5 years who is 52 has worked in a bakery for 30 years and her boss has sold up to a family. The wife of the said family does not want her in the bakery or using the delivery truck as my partner suffers from IBS (irritable bowel synd...

I want him. How can I make him see that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - So its been six months since me and my guy broke it off. For the best part we were best friends, hot lovers and inseparable. We had silly arguments over my on-line life until he cut it off completely. How do I make him see its him I want....

Did she just want to sleep with me? Or could she really 'like' me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - To cut a long story short, I had sex with my female housemate. I am not super attracted to her but yeah, it happened. I suspect she has been trying to seduce me for a while because she has asked to 'spoon' a couple of times after a night out. After ...

He lives in a different city and I really like him. How can I get him more interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hello! In a complicated situation. Help me out ! I really like this friend who lives in a different city. We have been on a couple of dates but we don't get to meet because of distance. I asked him out on a date recently but his response was " I ...

Is it disrespectful of me to enjoy my wife wearing something revealing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - my wife and i have been together for 16 years,we have always enjoyed doing things together. She is my best friend,my wife has always been out going something i enjoyed but had to get better at myself and with her help i did. Once in a while my wif...

I really like him but I fear rejection. What can I do? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - Modnote: two almost identical questions combined. ................................... dear cupid, ok so there is this guy that I really like he is a grade bigger than me, he used to like me at the beginning of the year (I could tell from the cle...

Had enough. What now? I'm honestly so ready to run, but I truly love my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - My husband and refuses to stand up for me when it comes to his crazy family. I was harassed during my husband's deployment. I have been through hell and back and defended my husband but I can't get the same in return. I always thought he would...

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

What kind of game is my friend playing? She plays hot then cold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Any idea what my "friend's" game is? She blows hot and cold. One minute she is all over me, asking to go out for a drink and a catch up, coming round to my house for a drink, next minute she cuts me dead and I hear nothing from her for age...

Does this guy have a girlfriend? I'm so confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - There is this guy who I used to date and have sex with, and all of a sudden, I saw a bunch of things that raise the question: Does this guy have an official girlfriend? -Firstly, he posted a picture on IG with a girl on Halloween and she commente...

Boyfriend's excuse made me feel belittled

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - The other night my boyfriend and I had plans for dinner. We talked about it in the morning and he seemed super excited about it. Well later on in the morning his friends asked if he could do a boys night in which he responded with “I don’t feel like ...

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

17 November 2016 (M) - I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own ...

Am I "withholding love" and therefore being manipulative??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - When my partner and I have a bad fight, she leaves for days, and I'm unable to display love. It feels fake if in the middle of everything I said "I love you so much" or "How are you doing, I miss you". I'm not withholding love as a punishment or to ...

I'm so tired of the paranoia that stems from trust issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - I have been battling trust issues since i was about 12 years old. So... 30 years now. The thought of actually just trusting someone in a relationship fills me with dread and anxiety. I am married and my husband knows of these issues thiugh he doesnt ...

Why do I have mixed feelings about my friend of 20 plus years who wants a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - My friend of 20 plus years has a plan to come and visit me. We have been crushing on each other for years now that we have come in contact with one another on Facebook we really want to see each other. We talked about being in a relationship but...

I want to focus on the now and on the future. But how do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - How do you forgive and forget someone who lied to you? My boyfriend lied to me during the first 1.5 years of our relationship. I knew he kept in touch with his ex and I was fine with it, thinking they were platonic friends. But I didn't realize h...

Did indulging in a little hot texting make him reluctant to see me? He didn't show up for a date. Didn't text me to say why, either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I was talking on text. we were getting along good and we were planning to go out our first date But he had work over time so when we start text again. So yet it again another date we set place to meet and this time he didn't sho...

Why have her habits towards me changed so drastically?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - I will try and make this as short and sweet as I can. First off I just want to say that in the last couple of months I have become a very anxious person towards the woman i become enveloped with. Just 6 months ago i could care less about if a wom...

I just want to know from a womans perspective what my wife may be feeling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - What does intercourse feel like for my 26 year old wife, who has only been with me, until she started having an affair with a man that we both know from the past... we had a threesome with him, which didnt work for me, but my wife started seeing h...

Whirlwind love ? Have we only bonded due to our circumstances? Her ex still constantly sends her texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - Ok so let me start from the beginning. About four months ago I separated from a 10 year marriage where it was not a good place and my ex was not a nice person to be around. Then about a month later I started with online dating apps and met a f...

Why does my boyfriend have two separate Snapchat accounts on one phone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - Is it possible for your boyfriend to have two separate Snapchat accounts on one phone? Just today I went to Add Friends from contacts in my address book and I saw my boyfriend's name under another user name and it said ADD beside his name. I alre...

Can we save things? Or do I just need to give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I have a confession. I ruined my family. I talked to other guys, maybe 3 at the most. Things weren't sexual but sometimes they were flirty. One man in particular was very committed to me. I know what I've done wrong. I'm know I'm a despicable human. ...

Should men in committed relationships be following bikini models on Instagram?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to know if it's right for a man in a relationship to have Instagram followers ( him following women that are models on Instagram) lately I noticed that a lot of my male friends who are married or in relationships are always folling these ...

Can I ever get my thoughts under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to write this to see if anyone has had any success in dealing with this or if there is no hope for me to resolve my issues. I have been in therapy and with medication since I was young I'm 31 now. I was diagnosed with OCD at 12. The last ...

I always find the wrong guy! I'm sick of being single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I seem to have no luck with finding the right guy... Recently met a new guy on a dating site. We spoke for a few days then he asked me on a date. I accepted and we arranged a day. However, as the day got nearer, he said he had to work so we could...