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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone kn...

He says he loves me but I have my doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - We've been married 21 years minus 4 year of separation. It was a terrible break. He got the teenagers to side with him and threw me out! Then our first born and only daughter died and I was shattered. I was so unstable that I needed someone and I ...

What's your take on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My common law spouse works for an organization which he was a manager and is now working in another department which is up there in the ranking. One day I went on the computer and he had left his yahoo open. He was receiving work e-mail through his ...

My boyfriend loves the attention, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - The first encounter which lead me to believe I have something to worry about is when he was at his brother's house and they were there.He was talking to me and he told me to hold on.They were talking about the fact that he has my name tattooed on ...

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...

I keep finding texts on my husbands phone, am I flogging a dead horse here or should I try and make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - three weeks ago i found some texts on my husbands phone (he had been out drinking all night with his mates again, and obviously got careless and forgot to delete them) they were not text that i would send to just a friend. "I would give anything to ...

While we were on a break she kissed another guy, and now she wants me to be friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I Really, Really need help and advice here! So here is my problem: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and during that time we separated for a month. We had been having some problems and she decided we needed time to clear ...

I cant stand the idea of not being with him, but then again I know deep down it is the right thing to end it.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a confused state. I've been with this guy for two years. Our relationship has been far from fairy tale, but we made each other happy. So we've been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months. Its been really hard. He questio...

My fiance and I have been fighting since day 1!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 2 years. we have been fighting for our relationship from the start. our parents dont approve because of religious differences and my friends thought it was a rebelion against my parents. 3 months into our relationship ...

She doesn't want me because I was bi-curious a long time ago! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Ok so me and my gf were together for a year and a half and we had a baby together. We broke up for about six months because we didnt trust each other and just recently got back together. Well things were going great till i found out she was lying to ...

My roomate's suggestion makes me really uncomfortable! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi. I have a random question not related to love. My roommate has a boyfriend and she has asked me if he could stay in the room with us (she said they would not do anything.) At first I told her I was ok with it, but then I told her honestly it ...

I caught my fiance in a lie!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I caught my fiance in a lie. I saw him talking and laughing with one of his female co-workers on their way to lunch (I was running an errand and saw them - with their lunches - walking together). When I asked him that night if he had eaten with ...

At some point she has to trust me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hello I've met a woman online we talked for about a month before we actually met. We met, we hit it off and we slept together. we both said we were ok with it and we both said we weren't seeing other people. Before we met she invited me on a field ...

I'm so upset, I lost my virginity to him but now he thinks I've cheated and is back with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hey, bit of a long story but need help! Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the septembe...

I don't love him anymore, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...

Do I approach him and ask for him to deactive this online profile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I am in a loving trusting gay relationship with my bf. We had a rocky patch a month ago, due to a misunderstanding and trust issues being damaged, but once everything was cleared and communication back to being open it was sorted and now we are s...

When is verbal abuse too much verbal abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lot to ask, but it all leads up to, "When has the verbal abuse gone "too" far? My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we just recently got married this year. 8/2010. We are both mid 30's, and we each have 2 children. This is his ...

Need some advice on how to overcome trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd appreciate your advice on how to stop myself becoming the kind of gf I don't want to be, and hope this doesn't sound stupid. I've been with my bf for a few months, both exclusive. He's a great guy-kind, caring, handsome, sexy and clev...

Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through ...

Did she use me for my money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - my gF of 6 years recently move out. said that she did not love me anymore and wanted to be on her own. a little back ground when we met she was my tenant and it grew it to a relatinship she came from an abusive relatinship and had 3 kids. she live...

I can't trust him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - We broke up with my boyfriend for 8months bt he kept calling me until i gave up en agreed for meeting , we broke up because he cheated on me bt i still love him very much my problem is now i cant trust him again now im confused wht should i do...

No trust, controlling or lying by ommission

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I work away from home for long periods of time. Somebody recently told me that my wife cheated, she denies it, but it is plausable. I love my wife and she hasn't really lied to me, the other person has, but i still have doubts. For some reaso...

Is it just a walk down memory lane ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - About a year ago I divorced and reconnected with a man I have know all my life. We had dated our senior year of high school until he moved and then again when we met up about ten years later until he moved for his job. He kept in contact with me ...

He has created an online fake to talk to me instead of talking to me himself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - ive been talking to a guy in his mid thirties on the internet on msn. he wasnt very talkative, and now i know 100% that he has made up a contact and is trying to talk with me as though he is someone else. why is he doing this? i havent told him that ...

My boyfriend keeps referring to the issues in my life as "baggage"1

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I'm going through a tough time right now and need some advice. I am In love with a man who constantly refers to the things going on in my life as baggage. To break it down these are the things he has issues with and how I'm dealing with them. Firs...

My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont ...

We only got back together because he promised not to lie, but he is telling lies again already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 5yrs, he was married for 19 yrs and I for 21 years. During the time we have been together he has cheated on me (he says only 1 time but I'm not sure) and have gotten busted lying to me ...

It feels like we are broken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey I'm 22 year old and I'm daten a younger guy he's 19 years old and since the begging our relationship has Been a lot of lies on both our parts really. Now I'm madly inlove and I change for him I gave a lit away for him cuz I wanted to i did it ...

He's betrayed my trust by going on facebook to another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Me and this guy were not officially a couple but have been very close for a number of months and were planning to be together once we'd tied up a few loose ends, like he was still living with his ex partner etc. However, me being nosey and insecure ...

Is the fact that he looks at porn and lies to me about an issue of incompatibility?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My question concerns pornography. Context: My boyfriend and I are 23 years old and have been together for almost 2 years. I love having sex and virtually never turn him down. Really, I'm the one that gets turned down the most. We currently ...

Girlfriend cheated and I am pissed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - my girl friend told me awhile ago that she cheated on me twice with two diff. people.. she cried alot and i cud tell she fells really bad about it but im pissed. we had minor problems things that cud of been fixed but she chose to cheat...at the ...

Am I in the wrong for getting mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - thanks for the help last time guys and girls. it helped me alot. now then i need some serious help, or advice, or whatever. last night my gf and i were talking and then she said that she texted a bunch of different people which i knew and didnt care ...

She says she's just on it for fun, but it's a webcam website with guys masturbating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Ill just get straight to the point, my girlfriend goes on this webchat website with her friend. U have a web cam and it cycles threw random people who are on the site to. And she says like every one is a guy masterbating. And they say they talk ...

My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...

Do I piece my family back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Hi all I just need a second opinion on this burning situation that has been going on for a little over a month now. I have been broken up for a little over a month with my ex-girlfriend. It has been difficult to say the least but, I am pulling thr...

My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it ...

She makes me feel like I am going crazy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - i ahve been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. it is my first relationship with a girl. i have sacrificed alot since ive been with her. for the past year she has taken me through a lot. where do i start. we dont live together but most of ...

Boyfriend said it wasn't him on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 5 months and I love him soo much. We're both 17 and he is my first boyfriend ever. Yesterday I logged in his facebook account (we both have each other's password) and saw a conversation of him with this other girl from school ...

Money is missing and all the signs point to my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I recently stayed over at my new boyfriends house. The next day while shopping i discovered my bank card was missing. I had the bank close the card immediately. Later that day I discovered that the bank account was emptied. and also some cash was ...

Jealousy has taken over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - so here goes... i came to dr to get back surgery and i be staying at my uncle house with his family.The 3 day i was here i meet one on my cousin's friends,that night it was me, my two cousins and her,we was playing a game and for some weird reson ...

Why do so many girls text my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Why do so many girls text my boyfriend and want to meet up with him? I hate it. ...

I have physical pain and he has gotten someone pregnant, please help??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Ive been with my childs father for 13yrs on and off,our child is 7yrs old. After having our child I got on the depo provera birth control shot,that has now made me infertile(unable to have anymore children)as well given me ovarian cysts.I hve been ...

Help..how do get over my insecure feelings about all her guy pals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I need help dealing with being so insecure. My girlfriend has a lot of male friends. Were both in highschool so she sees them everyday at school and talks to them ect (we both go to the same school to). When we walk in the halls together guys are ...

Should I just give up and move on now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting,...

I don't want to be jealous of him texting other girls anymore, how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He has a very productive life and works around a lot of girls. He was caught at the begining of our relationship texting girls innapropriately, and he continues. All we do is argue, but i don't ...

We are trying to patch up our marriage but she is still talking to the man she had an affair with!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I wrote a few days ago, and I asked about my wife and me. Thanks to everyone for all the advice but I have a continuing concern. My wife and I are trying to patch up our marriage but she continues to talk to the young man she had an a...

Why did she lie? I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I am embarassed to be here writing this today as its something I never ever anticipated doing, but the truth in the matter is I need answers and help! i first met my gf 7 years ago,however back then she was with someone and we just got on as f...

How can I help him overcome his trust issues?

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24 November 2010 (F) - I recently got back with my ex boyfriend who I love very much. The problem is... I lied to him about me still talking to my ex. I didn't mean it. I just sort of happened because I needed someone to talk to and my boyfriend was always working. The ...

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is going to Las Vegas this upcoming Thanksgiving weekend. He has only gone on a few trips without me,but NEVER to a place like Las Vegas." Whatever happens in Vegas,stays in Vegas." I am horrified of this quote. He is going with his ...

I read his email, found out he cheated and now he says he doesn't trust me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was away on course for 2 months in a different city. He was drinking a lot, very stressed and meet an old female friend he know 6 years ago on the course. When he arrived home, he very distance too me. My gut told me something happen .I ...