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Archived questions from: November, 2019 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I sent an email to a whole group instead of just the teacher.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1606 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - Hi Helping people. My issue is with school. A few weeks ago I asked to move a class a little earlier than usual as weren't going to have anything else on. I and some others wanted to finish early that day. 5 classmates thought we were going to...

I'm in a messy relationship with no romance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1607 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - I've been with my bf for 4 years. We have one child together and he is 5. Around the time I got pregnant, we were having issues and broke up. Shortly after, he got a new gf and they were together for about about a year and a half, all thru my pregn...

Married in haste, husband wont work or take care of family.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1609 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - I have been married for a little over a year. I feel like my marriage was a mistake because I my husband and I dated for two months because we married. We now have a baby together and things have just gotten worse for me. I have children from a ...

I cant stand up to my wife when it comes to money.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1608 days ago

29 November 2019 (M) - I don't know how to stand up to my wife when it comes to money. She literally spends a fortune on things and activities we just don't need to do and no matter how much I try to put money away for a rainy day, we always end up with nothing at the end ...

My boyfriend seemed understanding that I developed two crushes, and that I want closure from one of them.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1609 days ago

26 November 2019 (F) - This summer I had a full-time internship that took up most of my time during the week and I had long, early hours. My boyfriend of 5 years and I couldn't see each other as often as we wanted since I lived at a dorm, he lived pretty far away, and I ...

Older guy us making a move on me but wants to keep it quiet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1614 days ago

25 November 2019 (F) - I have a friend (he's 20 years older). A couple of years ago, we had a talk about our feelings. He told me that he was interested in me but couldn't be with me because he had a girlfriend. We stayed in touch (close friends but nothing more) until ...

My wife's workouts are getting out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1616 days ago

23 November 2019 (M) - My wife wanted to lose some weight for upcoming vacation so I encouraged her to get a trainer. A friend of hers recommend a 'gay' guy (Joe) she knew that worked out of his house at nights. Once I found out he was gay, I begged her to wear her shin...

How can I convince my fiance to stop lying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1614 days ago

22 November 2019 (F) - Hello and thank you So I’m dealing with lies from my fiancé. I have confronted him and told him I don’t appreciate when he lies to me and it makes me not trust him. For example I’ll ask him so how was your night, what did you do? He will say...

I'm in shock my boyfriend lied about sending private messages to my friend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1616 days ago

21 November 2019 (F) - My bf basically sent a message to someone he didn’t know was my friend saying “I think you’re beautiful and I think you should know lol” She sent me the screenshot. I called him very calm and said Hey, do you message girls on insta? He said no, ...

I want to take things slow but he thinks I am just stringing him along.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1616 days ago

21 November 2019 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 6 months, at first everything seemed great and he seemed like a gentleman, now I'm just having a hard time understanding his intentions. I'm not the type of girl who goes and sleeps around with any guy I date. I like t...

Why does my boyfriend seem obsessed with a woman he hasn't seen for a few years?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1458 days ago

18 November 2019 (F) - Hello, so I have been working with my boyfriend on and off helping him out in some of his work projects and he pays me, so he gave me his work laptop, not personal and I was working from there, so I remember I needed to search for a word meaning on ...

My teenage son is hitting on my wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1615 days ago

17 November 2019 (M) - Afternoon all.. so I remarried 15 years ago and my older son is now 19 and I think he’s been hitting on my wife and I’m not sure what to say ...

Roommate took in a person who is way overstaying her welcome

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1621 days ago

17 November 2019 (F) - I moved out of the dorms last year because of shitty roommates and in with a gay guy I thought was a friend. E and I work full-time and attend school part-time. Other than him quitting jobs suddenly (he at least gets another one) and refusing to do ...

I'm not sure if I should trust this girl, or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1618 days ago

17 November 2019 (M) - Hey Aunts. I have recent gone on a few dates with someone who I met online. I was wondering when to remove my profile from the site, but she got there first and told me she had done so. Great I thought - best go and do the same quick. But as I ...

I've realised my partner is a lazy lowlife scrounger who doesn't bath frequently enough.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1622 days ago

16 November 2019 (F) - Hey everyone what do you when you realise your partner is a lazy lowlife scrounger when I first met my partner he had a job his own flat and looked after himself that was 6 years ago fast forward to now he is a selfish scruffy low life who thinks of ...

Should I send a text for closure, should I feel jealous my friend works with my crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1625 days ago

13 November 2019 (F) - ive liked the same person for quite a while now and sometimes my feelings towards him go away then they come back again , I wish I didn't have feelings for him but you cant help it , we got along really well at first then due to the way I acted it ...

Should I fade my manipulative friend out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1626 days ago

12 November 2019 (F) - I have been "best friends" with a woman for over 25 years. I started to notice when the bill came at dinner, or anywhere we were, she'll begin to complain about how broke she is and I'd end up either paying the entire bill or some of her ...

My ex is a jealous, negative-minded selfish idiot in the relationship area, should I take him back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1628 days ago

9 November 2019 (F) - I have a tricky situation that will probably receive mixed reactions based on whether you're a dog-lover or not. Basically - I broke up with my partner a few months back. We fought at first but eventually learnt to be civil. We don't have any k...

My boyfriend has a separate SIM card for his cell phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1629 days ago

9 November 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and during all those months I noticed multiple times that he has an extra SIM card in his phone cover, but I didn't ask him why does he have another phone number, I gave it time and thought that he might ...

I don't trust my boyfriend around his female friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

3 November 2019 (F) - So my boyfriend told me about this girl at college that she actually likes him, and she once approached him and talked to him for a bit. I tried not to overreact and I trust him that he won't flirt or cheat on me with her, so I told him that as ...