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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

I don't trust my boyfriend and I wait for the next bad thing to happen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend messed me about a bit for the first half of our two year relationship [he met up with his ex behind my back, he flirted with other girls and was just generally not appropriate for a guy in a relationship]. Now he's behaving but my trust ...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...

Lie after lie from him. Shouldn't he be trying to make it up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lied. Now what? PLEASE help? Thursday I was with my boyfriend and I called him for our late night convo. But I remember him saying that he was going to have visitors and want get to talk to me tonight . I could hear that he was at a par...

Do you also believe that how he cheated on me and how I cheated on him is the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for a year now! I got pregnant when we had been together for like 8 months and 3 months later we got married. The thing is, when we had just started dating, about a month in the relationship I cheated (had sex) on ...

Shouldn't she just trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are ...

I trusted him completely and all he wanted was sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello All~Thank You beforehand for taking the time to view and possibly extend me a bit of advice. I befriended an individual on an online dating site who I had come to trust at the highest level that I had ever trusted. With tour very first conve...

Boyfriend still thinks I'm talking to men online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We met online, and didn't meet in person until 11 months prior internet meeting. During those 11 months, I wasn't faithful completely, I talked to other men online. I was a ...

I am desperate for some privacy and trust from my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - okay, so i am seventeen years old and my parents do not trust me at all. not with money, my friends or boys. over the past year though i have been trying to rebuild that trust with them but they are so reluctant. sleepovers for example- they let me ...

Was a broken condom accidental or otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Something I've always wondered. I had a friend who became a friend-with-benefits. A couple months back we got together. Beforehand we were talking. She knew I wasn't seeing anyone else and when the subject turned to sex, she asked me if I've ...

Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls ...

Is texting your girlfriend's friend behind her back classed as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I need to know if you have been with your partner for a few years,and you find out that hes been texting one of your friends both doing this behind your back but no sexual contact is this classed as cheating?...

Should I wait 2 years to be with him? And how will I cope for those 2 years when I don't trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and the guy I fancy is 27. He's the best person ive ever met and I love him so much. We have both agreed that until I'm 18 we won't take the relationship and further. I have really big trust problems as so many relationships have gone bad. I ...

I'm worried that he will go off with another girl for Halloween!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupids!!! Pls help me.. im getting afraid if my LDR bf will go for dating on holloween day. Hes in australia and im in singapore.. we love each other so much and he never cheat on me before through our relationship for a year.. he came to me in ...

How do get a person's trust after you have lied about something big?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I want to thank all of those who answered my question and gave me some advise and tips. I post a fallow up on my situation and I really need some more advise. Please go to the posts on oct.20 my online name is hobbie and the post was..I didnt tell ...

He is abusive and accuses me of cheating constantly. How do I stay away??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him ...

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day sh...

The only guy I trust is my friend. How can I trust my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Im 15 and ive been dating my bf for 3 months and i have serious trust issues. Every guy ive dated has cheated on me more than once or left me for another girl then came back when he got tired of her. I dont trust my bf and i feel bad about it. I ...

I'm uncomfortable with him seeing a female friend. Can I say anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years went behind my back and met up with his ex. He also had some semi naked photos of her on his computer which I accidently found. We had a row and made up and decided to give it one last go. Thing is, my trust, although ...

I want my cheating girlfriend back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi, im 18 years old and i just had my first relationship ever which ended yesterday, it was going on the 6 month mark. in our first month, she kissed/made out with two of her guy friends then told me about it( within 2 weeks of them both happen...

Am I still grieving the loss of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - If you know that you have meet an amazing man who you are happy with and treats you well,how come i cant help but sometimes think how i miss an ex?I have a child with him do you think this is why i think about him?i never understood the breakup as ...

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me in the past and now its hard for me to trust her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is on a space break with me for a week. It happened because i dont trust her with other guys and i am always scared that she will cheat on me or dump me for someone else. She flirted with my best friend and he asked her out to take her ...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

I need help getting rid of Mr Gutter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm facing a real dilemna and really need advice asap. This past August I started dating a guy I met at a conference. We instantly clicked and things between us only keeps getting better and better. He's divorced with 2 kids who live with their ...

He wants me to find him a girlfriend ... but what about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Dear ______ I've like this guy for awhile. I met him online but Ive seen him aroundbefore but never talked to him. He went to the same high school i didand graduated same year. I met him once with his friend we talked andhad coffee and made them som...

I'm uncomfortable with all her male friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and almost 4 months but one thing bothers me and its her guy friends. i only know a few of them that are my friends as well but there a lot i don't know should i be worried? i keep hearing from ...

My boyfeiend keeps going back and forth and I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So i have been with this guy since our 7th grade year and i am now a freshman in college. We had our ups and downs like normal relationships. During our 9th grade year he kept breaking up with me and then 3 weeks later we would get back together. ...

Should I let my wife's relationship with Matt bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Should I let this bother me? My wife is in nursing school. The past two days she's mentioned having lunch with the same guy. Matt. When she first mentioned him back when school started I casually asked about him. She said he's married but havi...

Should I confront my bf about the inappropriate text messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years, last year, he lied to me about texting another girl because I would get "jealous", when I confirmed I wouldn't, he apologized and now tells me when he texts another girl. This morning though, ...

My jealousy's slowing us down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?...

I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...

Am I nuts for worrying that she'll keep my personal information to herself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Can someone give me some advice? I've always been a person that will be honest in a relationship. I think its a good attribute to have just so there are never anything to worry about, coming back to haunt me, etc... I have been very honest with...

Jealous partner, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for just over 2 months now, I've been really happy in the relationship, we are happy together and nothing has gone wrong so far, well that's what I thought. We went out to a party the other night and he went to the toil...

Is my husband in love with his best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Hello all, Let me preface this by saying that I am a man and my husband is also a man, so if that makes you uncomfortable this is not the post for you... So here it is. I'm not sure where to start so I'll start with my husband and I have been ...

Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to ...

How do I get their father to take an interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again an...

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would ...

We broke up, but now she is cheating on new b/f with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Ok ill start off by saying that i dated my ex for 2 and a half years and we were friends for like 6 months before that. We took everything slow and we fell in love with each other. we had some problems at the end and she started ignoring me and ...

Sexy chatters don't know they are neighbours who don't speak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - Is very strange but its truth one of my friend from 2months chatting with a girl he'll ask her everything about sex dirty talk everything and she didn't see his face and never know him even she know he's stranger also ready to have sex with him but ...

I am hooked on the calls from a married man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with a married man. We have known each other since High School. He has been married for 29 years. We have been talking for 1 year, we have never touched. We have talked about sex 7 or 8 times, the other times we talk about families, ...

After two full on weekends he has stopped texting me goodnight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - i met this guy and he has took me out every day over the weekend for the past 2weeks and i think we have fallen fast for eachother we have this feeling like weve known eachother forever! im very confurtable with him we talk about everything together ...

What is acceptable to text/ talk to opposite sex friends about, when in a relationship with another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I first found this site when my bf who I trust started having a large increase of female friends. This really bothered me becuase he would text them all of the time. They would talk about sex and their relationships to him. ...

Why would he get sent to jail, and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4924 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Moderator Note: Two questions combined from same asker. So me and this guy I'm "talking" to and have been for 3 months, go to diiferent schools. They are in the same city and county and stuff just diffrent highschools. Well we ate in a sexual r...

Do you think my long distance boyfriend fancies her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - We are both in uni in Europe (different countries). We meet once in a while and I am crazily in love with him and it seems its the same with him. He keeps flying down to visit me and he's coming to mine tomorrow. He's a little older than me. We t...

I begged him not to break up with me

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27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,My boyfriend and been together for three years. He and I was in love but lately we been arguing and we broke up. He told me we have to be friends because he says he is scared. I beged himm but he wants to be friends with me and still talk to me. ...

Dating a week and his already in love ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i havent been dating for very long (one week) and hes already told me he loves me. my problem with that is..i dont feel the same way. i care about him and love hanging out with him and our friend who for now im going to name c. also ...

Am I just crazy and paranoid or what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - This may be a long description but you have to get the whole story. My boyfriend of 5 months and I met at work. He had a girlfriend at the time. We always flirted and had a good time when working together and we made each other laugh. One night he ...

Should I be worried about guys who work on these cruises? Are they playing lots of girls all of the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to ...